Would You Ever Have Sex On The First Date?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by forest_pixie84, Oct 18, 2004.

  1. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    I'm glad you said this.

    When I first saw the thread question, I immediately thought no. But, if I had already known that person for a long time and was really in love with them then I might sleep with them on that first date if it felt right. (even then kind of iffy though)

    Otherwise, no, messing around is fine but sex is not on the first date.
     
  2. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    Dunno, probably not./Nope never have.
     
  3. matthew

    matthew Almost sexy

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    mmm no i have been their a few times, but its always been a while after 'confession'..no i don't think i would or could ... definitly worth sleeping on (alone). Though their is one girl i have loved since school (sad but true) that i think i would never confess and never want too sleep with realy..shatter a dream i guess.
     
  4. cobcottage

    cobcottage Member

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    There is me:) Not making any more stupid mistakes in my life thank you very much.

    I don't date anymore.
     
  5. Meeshka Chaukinov

    Meeshka Chaukinov Senior Member

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  6. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    yes i would have sex on the first date only if i like the guy. and yes i have had sex on the first date.
     
  7. vanilla

    vanilla Member

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    No and yes.
     
  8. Jimmie

    Jimmie Member

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    man first or last WTF .sex is sex .and i love it .peace.
     
  9. Jimmie

    Jimmie Member

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    man first or last WTF .sex is sex .and i love it .peace.a bit of kitty would be nice.
     
  10. Butters

    Butters Senior Member

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    Nah, I wouldn't. Just too quick.
     
  11. MirakulouslyDead

    MirakulouslyDead Member

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    absolutley...0 'dates' required
    after all, how do you know if you wanna 'date' them??? lets face it, that's what dating is for....having sex :p
     
  12. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    hehehe i bet you wait till you are going steady to even slip a girl the tongue :D
     
  13. AutumnAuburn

    AutumnAuburn Senior Member

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    Would I? Depends on chemistry. With my bf, we both had no intention of having sex on the first date; but our chemmies got the better of us.

    Have I? Yes, I have. But most of the time, I don't.
     
  14. Ikarion

    Ikarion Member

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    I think sex on the first date does not screw things up, people screw things up.

    If you know the person for a long time before a date, then it is not like you have sex with a stranger...

    If you feel attracked by a person and vice-versa then i don't see any other problem than the fear of what the other person is going to think of you... it's all about mentalities, i really don't see why to people can't have sex while they still don't know each other well but already feel attraction.

    i guess.
     
  15. WesternInfidel

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  16. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I had sex on my first date with my husband Marcel, and we are still together after 3+ years.

    I had done it before... 2 out of the 4 people I did it with were first date situations.

    I suppose it makes you slutty and greedy for sex if you do it on the first date.

    It simply depends on the person. I am a Scorpio, and it worked fine for me.

    *lol*
     
  17. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    yes I would... I'm very easy :)
     
  18. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    Just more proof that everyone pays for sex (only diffrence is the people who pay pro's get their money's worth LOL).
     
  19. Barefoot Guy

    Barefoot Guy Member

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    Yes/Yes. I met a woman through a personal ad. Turned out we went to HS together. After she put her 6 year old son to sleep we were sitting on the couch talking. Next thing we knew I started going down on her and we ended up having sex on the living room floor with an X-Rated tape she put on. She didn't want me to be there in the morning when her son woke up.

    During the second date we ended up in her bed, it was New Years Eve. I asked her if she liked it on her face. She said she only lets certain guys do that. A few seconds later I was one of those guys. She told me she wanted to try bi. She was a very sexual woman. We stopped seeing each other soon after. She got into trouble, police, arrest, etc. Don't know where she is now. Her son was taken by the State.

    The other one on a 'first date' was a Windjammer single's cruise. We slept on deck, started kissing, I moved downstairs, pleased her, she went to reciprocate but then the sun came up, people were milling about so I ended up frustrated...that morning.
     
  20. john olson

    john olson Member

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    yes and yes,
    John
     

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