Older married guys

Are you an older married guy, not getting any at home, and have fantasized about trying something with another guy? Have you already experimented and lived out your fantasy? Do you continue to explore other options?
What prompted you to "Experiment", or want to?

 

Since nobody else has answered this post, I thought that I'd throw my two cents in.

I'm in my early 50s. Sex with my wife has been almost nonexistent for several years. After turning to masturbation and porn to provide some relief, I stumbled on bi and gay porn and found an interest in having sex with men kindled (I had experimented when I was a kid but I consider that to just be a manifestation of being horny and inquisitive). After communicating with a number of bi and gay guys online, I finally realized that I would have to try something with another guy.

To date, I've hooked up with a married guy, a formerly married guy who's now gay, and a divorced man. I've experimented with JO and oral and thoroughly enjoyed both getting and giving. I've also tried anal as a bottom but was unsuccessful.

As to whether or not I continue, I probably will. There's just something so powerful about having M2M sex that I don't think that I could stop if I wanted to. I love my wife and still relish the thought of sex with women, but this is an itch that I believe that I'll have to continue to scratch.

 

This is a very interesting topic. I too am in my fifties and have wanted to try giving oral sex to another man but have never found a way to do it. Obviously I don't want to bring myself into disrepute and my efforts on the net have been mainly futile. I don't have the desire to go to Gay bars and I believe they would be mainly poulated with the younger set. Yes, it is frustrating.

I recall often my early years in the Merchant Marine when a cabin mate quite a bit older than me was maturbating in the cabin when I walked in unexpectedly. I remeber him always bragging he had a cock 8.5 inches long and it was true. Well, I saw it on this particular night and felt a tingle in my groin and a flush come over me. He asked me jokingly if I wanted to help him out and, of course I said that I'm not interested and went about my business. As I look back on this, I feel genuine regret. Maybe someday I'll manage this desire and try it.

 

You may be right about the gay bars being populated with the younger guys but there's a lot of younger guys out there who prefer older men...

 

I hope to soon have a go at it. We want to suck eachother

 

i have only considered having my dick sucked

 

While my wife and I have very good sex together and are very affectionate to each other, I have very strong desire for male contact. My wife can give me everything I want in sex except a penis. I do however stay faithful to her. I do not want to fuck up what I do have.

 

I am not, but I am a fan of the older married guys

 

Go for it! There are plenty of us out here who'd be glad to suck you off and would expect nothing in return. Generally, guys who love to suck and have some experience at it are damn good cocksuckers. The best BJ I've ever had was from a guy. But that's not to say I haven't had some real good ones from women, though. I've blown quite a few "straight" guys who told me that it was the best blowjob they'd ever had.

 

Just wondering if your wife knows about your activity. if she does, does she approve or even enjoy the thought. if not, do you think she might approve, get turned on, or be disgusted?

 

HI
I am a bi-sexual married male in my early 50's. I would love to chat with other men in a similar situation.I still enjoy sex with women but find that the thought of being with another man very exciting. Nothing turns me on more than the though of having sex with another guy.

 

Hi mackk,

I am a bi-sexual married male in my early 60's. I can relate. The idea of a male playmate is a real turn on.

 

I'd love to be in a group scenario... The one on one experiences I've had were mixed. Guys not honest about what they want, or assuming I'm open to everything. So for me, it would be ideal to stumble upon a situation among guys - however we meet, and we all go at it in a threesome or orgy.

 

I am in my late 50's, never done anything with another guy, but often have fantasies of sucking another guy’s cock. Every time my wife gives me head, I imagine that its me sucking another guy’s cock, and I imagine that soon it would be HIS turn to suck mine. In my fantasy, the lights are low. I never see the guys face. He has gotten undressed and taking a shower, he leaves the bathroom door open a crack The lights are turned off in the room, I am in. I set on the edge of the bed. He comes into the room. I feel for his cock in the darkness and happy to find it about the same size and shape as my own. He is hard with a slight curve upwards. I take his cock in my mouth and he moans. I moan too, as I start sucking. I think to myself, "This is hot. I'm sucking the cock of this man that I just met and don't know his name, or even what he looks like.” I love the taste of his precum on my tongue. I suck for a hour or so, stopping when he is about to blow, then starting back. When the cum does start, it is a lot, a mouth full, but I don’t lose a drop. It taste great, a little sweet, just like mine. He lets me keep on sucking for a few minutes, to make sure I get every drop. After that I go to the shower, and he waits to do the same for me.

 

Sounds great! I woud love to be the guy in your shower.

 

It turns me on more every day. I would love to have another married male as
as a playmate.

 

I am early 50s and want to try sucking cock.Would love to chat with others likemined

 

Would like to chat with you too

 

Yes, I think I would like that.
We can chat via pm if you like.
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