Was I too mean to my boyfriend?

dude that's fucking evil

if I were him I would superglue your eyes shut and see how you like it.

 

I know, I know. like i said, i didn't know it scared him to be without his glasses.

 

I think you should have just talked to him about his behavior since it was only his first time doing something like that. I dont know how taking his glasses would teach him a lesson. Maybe you should just tell him how you feel and stuff instead of making him freak out and get mad.

 

Taking the glasses WILL teach him a lesson, just not the one she has in mind.

 

what she did shows him how low she can really stoop. As for him if he would have harmed himself hold yourself responsible. I had a bf once who was legally blind and couldn't see much. It wouldn't teach him shit to take his glasses away Talking to him would prove to him how BIG of a person you really are and how confident you can be.


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You Hurt His Feelings? he said you "hurt his feelings". wow.

that just made me laugh because i have never known a guy to say that he got his feelings hurt. he should have known it was a joke. but some men just have girl parts and get their feelings hurt. tsk. tsk.

 

some women should consider feelings detox for that matter . Frig.

 

oh yes, you're right
he should have never have done something as wussy and un-macho as having emotions
*ties you down, slaughters your family in front of you, laughs at your wussiness*

 

Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.

 

a pig will stay a pig if you keep calling it a pig.

some people will never learn, but I have, and that keeps my hopes that others may if coerced correctly =)

 

What are you suggesting? That a pig magically make itself into a peacock?

I tend to favor the pedagogy of example...and inquiry. A pig is not going to be coherced into being a peacock.

 

i think it would have been fine for like an hour but not a whole entire day. you should have explained that you didnt like his behavior.

 

it wasnt nice but we all do that shit at one time or another. and its all good now so meh

 

well, as far as a straight analogy goes, it could easily work out multiple ways, 'it is only a pig cause you call it a pig'
it could be saying that if we called it a duck, it would be known instead as a duck; and therefore we pick what it is to be called
or that 'pig' is simply a label that means nothing, and though we perceive it as bad, it is really quite indifferent


but I was more of suggesting in a less literally analogical sense
that if one is urged positively to act differently, rather than insulted about how they do act, they will be more likely to change their ways

 

yes you stupid bitch that was fucking mean. now get back in the kitchen.

 

hehe, i dont think you should feel guilty, he forgave you so he obviously wasn't that hurt by it, he might do the same sort of thing to you some time, and i don't think it would make you that upset either.... at least he didn't really lose his specks!! don't worry bout it girl!

 

At least he has more than one pair now.

 

Yeah that's pretty bad - that's really bitchy. You should just be mature and talk to him about it and explain how you feel. You shouldn't stop him going out with his mates though. He has friends - get used to it.

 

Wow....OP....you went overboard for sure but you realized that so I guess it's all good.

Praxis, psycho-analyzing people over the internet is never a good idea.