so christmas is coming, and my girlfriend thinks im going to propose to her... i have been showing her rings because i wanted to get her a promise ring, but im not ready to ask her to marry me... wtf do i do, i dont want to hurt her.... god im in such a bind here.... someone shoot me... it just makes it so much worst that shes telling her family and friends that...
Are you sure? Because you're like 19. I didn't think people believed that you could propose so freaking young. Tell her. Fast! Now! It's worse if you wait and show her a ring and you're all like 'JKJK!' If you led me on, I'd kill you :x Just say something like... 'I know you've been thinking... blah blah blah telling everyone blah blah blah but I'm not ready yet blah blah blah'
She's kinda silly for assuming such a serious thing. And you kind of silly for not correcting her right away.
I think that you should talk to her about it. Let her know that you aren't ready for such a big step.
I think whatever way you go your more or less buggered, if you tell her that your not ready it's very likely that she's going to take it personally and it's going to fuck up the relationship. If you don't tell her then your engaged. WTF were you doing showing her rings anyway? Of course she's going to assume that.
