Been monogamous for 9 years

I've been deemed a troll, so I'm deleting my inflammatory rantings iggy:

 

A big asshole.

 

A huge asshole. If you don't want to be married, then get out of it and stop whining.

 

Thanks, Do you think that everyone who having a hard time in a marriage should just get out of it?
My original post was very poorly worded I admit, but I can't be the only married person to have trouble with monogamy.

 

Well, it matters whether this is a long-standing feeling or if it's fairly new. Lots of marriages have ups and downs. (And lots of downs happen during the cold months, when there's not as much to do and people tend to be more unhappy anyway.) Do you think this is just a rough patch? If so, you bull through it and it'll get better, right? If you think this is just how it is, though, I agree with Caliente.

 

It was -19 degrees in Denver on monday.
I wish I had not started this thread, thats what I get for posting when I'm fucked up.
Yes, I'm a piece of garbage, thats fine, but eventually we'll all rot.

 

I wouldn't say it makes you an asshole...you're probably just bored with the routine. Try spicing it up with the wife.

Then again, I'm a dude who's never married. So, what do I know?

 

You sound as though this isn't your first time down this road.
Did you cheat before?
Have you talked with your wife about how you feel?
Do you frequently use "I was fucked up" as an excuse for your mistakes?

To answer your question .... 98.3% asshole.



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

My parents have managed 36 years. You have NO excuse. Get out of your marriage if you want to fuck around.

 

Yep I cheated with 5 women 7 men 3 goats & 5 hot pockets. Then I killed a few children and drank their blood, and shot heroin with a needle i found in the gutter. All while I was fucked up.
I tell you I'm garbage lets let it go...
LOOK, OVER THERE! What's going on in RANDOM THOUGHTS?

 

Do Not Feed The Trolls!​

especially the stupid ones!​

Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

hey man I'm with you. sometimes I'd love to go out and kiss a load of people and have sex with someone new! monogamy can suck!!! but in relationships there are highs and lows. sometimes I want sex bad from my husband others I'm like-ukkk get away from me. It doesn't make you a iggy: at all it makes you honest, not that you should tell her this!

 

Are you advocating dishonesty as the path to a good marriage?

 

nope, but maybe we don't need to tell your husband/wife every thought that crosses your mind. thats not being dishonest. especially if your more than likely going to change your mind. I can think realli shitty thoughts about my hubby and best friends when I'm in a crappy mood/state of mind. if I don't tell them does that mean my friendships and marraige are built on lies?

 

I started this thread, Who's the troll?
Now I'm feeding the oldtrolls

 

Why am I stupid?

 

Rules of the internet part 153.47a, sub-paragraph 17.6 clearly states, "Trolls who are thread starters are eight times more insidious than responders. The proper response to them is, 'STFU.'"

Therefore, STFU!

 

I will if you will

 

So what if your parents have been married for 36 years? That doesn't mean that either of your parents didn't have affairs during the marriage, it only means that if they did you aren't aware of it. I doubt that is something that either of them would openly share with you unless they had to. But I do agree with you that cheating is wrong and you should divorce before going that route.

 

You have to learn to ignore OldTroll. I think the fact that he has nearly 2000 posts in just the 2 months that he has been here pretty much sums him up. Between the time he spends posting here and the time he spends masturbating his cat I don't see where he finds time to eat or sleep. I guess oldtrolls don't need that.