ive never been naked in front of others in public before and even in the locker room i cover up and im kind of nervous because i have a small penis and small balls when i go to a nude beach will i be laughed at or judged by others?
I daresay: no, you won't. If it is a nude beach where nudists/naturists/nekkid people in general come together (no, seriously, no pun intended!), they gather there to just enjoy being nude on the beach and in the water. They will merely see you as another person wanting to enjoy nudity on the beach and in the water as well. It's not a competitive thing, and all these nekkid people come in any size (overall and genitally), color and shape. Don't be worried, just go there, bare it and enjoy. And, in case someone makes a joke (which I doubt), just come up with a reply (best given with a grin) like: "Well, it's got its own head, and it thinks the water is way too cold!" - humor is a nice way to disarm such jocular people. nekkidly yours, ~*Ganesha*~
the point of nudism is body acceptance. a lot of people who don't like their body realize that their body is merely normal.
I'd like to think that going to a nude beach or resort isn't like that. Like Darkforest said you most likely won't even be stared at. People are there to be naked, not to look at other people and judge. I've been to a nude beach a few times and the first time I went I was happy to see how casual everyone was. Go and enjoy yourself and don't be self conscious!
I would say don't worry about it. Everyone is a little nervous their first time on a nude beach. It took me a couple of hours before I would take off my swimsuit bottom, but when I did, I quickly discovered that no one really cared. Nude beaches are pretty casual.
First off, organs come in all sizes and you've got nothing to worry about. It would take a very ignorant and obnoxious person to make fun of someone else for their size. The only person who is going to be concerned about it is going to be you... at least until you're past that. I have several friends who have very few problems with being naked. This has led to more than a few pictures of them at parties or events. One of the men in this group is fairly small. I've never noticed it and no one has ever pointed it out or paid much attention to it. It's not like we all stand around and stare at each other. Anyway, one of the pictures of him was in a book and another friend (not a nudist in any way) commented on the apparent size. It was the first time I'd ever thought of it but, also, it struck me as being extremely rude and invasive. A person who didn't understand at all, making fun of someone, just struck me as obscene. I was more embarrassed for the person who made the comment than the person it was made about. And from the uncomfortable silence that she faced from the rest of the group... I think she understood that she'd made a big social misstep. So, relax. You're probably not as small as you think but even if you are... no one is going to pay attention. And even if someone notices, they'd never make an issue of it or judge you for it. Edit: Wow, this was an old post. Sorry, didn't notice the date. I hope the OP still reads it but, more than that, I hope he's already gotten ample personal experience to know for a fact the things I've stated above.
Only worry if there is a guy with a long black robe on is at the beach, and he has a gavel. Other than that, no one is your judge. Actually, think of people at a nude beach; they are like so many cattle -- it's a big herd, and they're all nude. Cattle don't comment on each other, and neither will people. The only reason they might comment about you would be if you were eight feet tall, or something unusual like that, or devastatingly handsome like me. <cough>
No one will judge you- everyone is nervous at their first time at a nudist beach. I found a part of the beach with space to myself on my first visit.
i had the same worries as you and i thought that i was just being foolish and people wouldnt judge. unfortunatley i was wrong (kinda) i am also like yourself in the fact that i have a really small penis. When i went to my 1st nudist beach i went for a swim and as i was walking out of the water after a really enjoyable swim 2 females walked past me. 1 girl noticed just how small i was and couldnt help but blurt out a laugh n tapped her friend to have a look , when the 2nd girl looked she actually held her hand over her mouth to stop laughing. Both were now staring at my area and when they had walked past i could hear them say . Girl 1" oh my god that poor guy" , Girl 2 " i know i felt bad for laughin but i couldnt stop". it was really embarrassing for me and went back and lay down on the sand. however when i was just reading my 3 asian girls walked past. i do not know what they were saying, due to language diffences. but yet again they walked past and noticed how small i was and laughed at me. this was a really bad eperience for me and it took me a while to go nude for a really long time, but i did and boy am i glad. i was in a nudist area in a city park and i went to read a book. it was the best way to read a book. surrounded by 100 other ppl just lazing around nude. i was reading my book when a group i maybe 6 ppl walked past me. yet again i heard a girl passin judgement on my penis size and they wlkd off laughin. at this stage i was really annoyed with the whole nudist thing and people laughin and commenting onhow small my penis was and was about to get dressed and finish with the nudist thing but then a lady talked to me , after seeing the others comment on my small penis size, and told me not to worry about them. she really cheered me up and made me fell so good about my body and my penis. after that day i felt really good about the whole nudist thing and i now dont care what ppl think. i still get ppl giggling and pointing and my small penis but really man just ignore them its worth it in the end
i think the ppl that i met were not nudist just ppl who came along tosee a nudist beach n to perhaps check ppl out or whatever, i was just tryn to get accross that ppl might pass negatve judgemnt on ppl and find some amusement but that that should not deter ppl who have fears about there bodies from going. i can assure u that those stories about women laughn at my penis size are true unfortunatley. i think that when i came out of the water it was particularly smaller than it usualy is due to the cold water but it was an embarressing moment nonetheless and the second time it was a small group of girls who were not naturist but had just come along to look at guys.
