My girlfriends iffy on the Oral...

So I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now and she sparingly allows me the pleasure of going down on her. I love it and I do my best to let her know that often, still she seems more put off to the idea than turned on by it. In the past that I have done it she said she enjoyed it and once asked me very sexily to go down on her. Since then she hasn't asked and when I head down south she says no and that she doesn't feel clean enough for that. She goes down on me whenever I ask and even swallows on many occations.

Is there anyway to convince her that she's not repulsive to me down there and that I would love nothing more than kiss her sweet womanly folds?

Thanks

 

Hmm have you tried pulling her aside and letting her know that it not only pleases her but you also enjoy doing it?

 

I have, bluntly. She still becomes uptight about it for some reason, is there a way I can work up, or down I should say, to it?

 

Hmm, I don't know what to tell you. Maybe it just doesn't feel good to her. Do you know if she likes it?

 

then you doing it wrong....
get more aggresive. Grab her up, knock everything off the table. Throw her on the table.. take her panties off.. pull up a small chair, throw her legs over your shoulders and eat that pussy like its thanksgiving diner.. Do not let her get up intill your covered with her gravy. < if you dont get no gravy. then "your doing it wrong."

You dont eat pussy in bed, you eat it at the table.. thats why theys says EATS!

If your dont have a small chair. get one from a Lil-Tikes playset.. I suggest you still use the dining table..
I have a yellow chair from a different set.. Its a good chair for the ladies to sit on while giving head aswell. :cheers2:

 

i agree ^

i definitely agree!

 

This sounds really hot!

 

Maybe your girlfriend gets the sense that you don't really enjoy giving it to her for some reason, maybe she's been with previous partners who didn't want to go down on her, I don't know: we women are much more complicated than you guys: communication is key.
Also, I think it's really hard for women to allow themselves that kind of pleasure because of how society portrays the female genitalia (negative) and also the fact that porn emphasizes so much the man's pleasure (blow jobs, anal sex, submission and humiliation) and so little on sensuality and cunningulus. All I can say is that she is a lucky girl for having found you. Personnally, I would love for my boyfriend to go down on me but even if he did, I wouldn't feel sexy or find it really pleasurable because I know how much he hates doing it. I realized that the one thing he would always encourage me to do was what got him excited the most: deepthroat blowjobs.... so I delivered and even though I wouldn't get much pleasure out of it (because of the fact that it was always one sided, that I felt like an object and felt disgusting because he wouldn't finger me, let alone put his mouth near my vagina), I eventually figured that this was how things were supposed to be. (Anyway, I have my own relationship issues which I won't get into any further). I think you guys need to talk, maybe you should let her know about what I just said: That women get the false perception that men don't want to go down on them. Make her feel confident, like she is the most sexy being on earth to you, make yummy noises with your mouth when you go down. Also, be patient, don't expect her to change overnight, build the trust and confidence. Good luck!

 

i think guys are harder to read

 

I always have seconds and thirds..

 

Thank you thank you =] all very helpful I will try as much as I can, I love her very very much and I wanna give her ultimate pleasure, have her gasping for air, sex her into a coma so to speak =p Thank you! Any other suggestions are still welcome. She will actually be arriving to see me soon and spend the weekend with me.

 

In fact I think she would really really enjoy being forcefully placed on a table and have me be very forceful. She's told me she likes to be taken by force but I am somewhat shy so I am working up my dominant side.

 

I think you should do it, if she told you she likes it then it sounds like a good idea.

 

I personally don't enjoy oral at all, and I never really have with any of my partners. When people go down on me it's really annoying, and I get angry about it because I don't enjoy it.

Your girlfriend could be the same, just because you enjoy it doesn't mean that she does.

 

Tell her to wash her ass so that she'd be "clean enough for it." Or you can wash her ass for her.

 

Don't neglect the preliminaries: focus on her whole body before you zone in on the flower. However, you should ask her how she likes it: some like it long, some prefer it short. Also, when you're down there, be careful with the clit. If you're too rough with the tongue action on that spot, it can actually start to hurt and be very unpleasant. The trick is to go slow and try to aim indirectly at the button (over the flap of skin that covers it).... well I don't know, those are just my personal preferences, your girlfriend may be different.

 

I like the vacuum thing - I'll get the top of her pussy - all of it - in my mouth. Focus my lips down on her clit and suck that bad little fucker out of it's hiding spot. While you're sucking, flick your tounge back and forth all over it. Drives the old lady nuts - but like others have said, the aggressiveness can actually be a downturn after a few minutes. But vacuuming is a great pick me up for her.

 

^ the sucker fish maneuver..

 

Goddamnit you look so fucking framilier, but i cant quite put my finger on it. I live in NJ so maybe ive seen you?

That or mostly likely, you just look like someone im somewhat framilier with....

 

Mission accomplished haha, I used force and she squirmed like none other, she was begging me to come back up but when she finally pulled me back up I asked what do you want? and she was like I want you inside me... wait no I want you down on me again... wait I donno just something, she was pushing me back down there in a split second. Thanks for all the advice. The end of the weekend she tells me that I made her cum more than she ever had in her life before this weekend We like to be adventurous too so I brought her to the liberary and we had a bit of a quicky against a bookshelf, good times and all this because I went down there forcefully. Thanks again!