As a straight male for most of my life, I've had no problems getting laid. Booty calls left and right, with pretty much most ethnicity out there (since I live in L.A.). In recent months, I accepted the fact that there is a bisexual side to me that I have finally decided to venture into. I've gone on many websites looking for casual encounters, craigslist, and other safe places that I've casually attempted at, but with little to no results. But in my quest to lay someone and/or get laid, I find it extremely difficult in doing so. In fact, there have been many occasions where I've had my place to myself, and every single time, and a guy will flake out at the last minute. Now I'm a pretty good looking, muscular, down-to-earth kind of guy, and over the months, I've discovered that black men are kind of in demand for this sort of thing. But for the life of me, I can't figure out why no one has stepped up to the plate and got busy with me... I know not too many men like rejection from women, but seeing that it'sa man on man situation, that should make it a thousand times easier for bisexual guys to feel comfortable, when pursuing another guy. So I ask those that have been being doing this for a while... How was hooking up for you in the beginning? Did you have a tought time finding guys to hook up with? ...Knowing someone that you're confident you'll hook up with is one thing, but going in to this with no knowledge or experience is another... What's your thoughts?
For me it has been reltivie easey i mean i came from a all boys school and there are awayes thoes who are desprate / are up for it or are gay / bi. Now i am at unie / collage meet a guy there and we just go off in a club and are going out with each other. Any way thats my experance (in brief) but it can be diffcult for others i mean some people who are on the net dont turn up - in my experance the best thing to do is to o to gay bars / clubs and talk to guys and see how it goes.
Electric boy is pretty much my experience. I have never hooked up with anyone on he Web. If looking for a hookup I will mingle with gay guys. Invariably one or more will hit on me. Granted an 18-year-old will get more action than a grampa, but I still get guys coming on to me, or finding guys most amenable to coming to my place for a "massage."
- True but as said there are still people out there who want to hook up - mabie profezzor_x the internet may not be the best place 4 you, - try going out on the scean more.
IMHE, www. works for the guys looking for a relationship and mostly willing to date before they do the deed. Lots of people will tell you that a backroom is not the best place to start a monogamous, loving and lasting relationship, since it defines both dudes as somewhat on the promiscous side. Other than that, there is no reason to bother. Get cruising and hunt down your men. WYSIWYG and there it goes... KD
Not interested in signing up with a whole lot of websites just to get laid. Nor am I in a position to go to a gay bar, and possibly contract something from a passionate one night stand with a bar regular. What I'm looking for is a curious married guy like myself that's down for a hook up or two when the time comes. And all the methods I've tried so far don't seem to work.
I am in the same situation as you are profezzor for a long time. I find it not easy to find the right person in the right place at the right time.
Easier said than done. When you consider a daily routine of work, errands, and other things done in an average week, sitting in the mall or supermarket for hours, just waiting for the right eye contact with someone is a needle in a million haystacks, much less unrealistic. It's forums like this that should be open to chance meetings, but it seems that people live either out of state or they're too young to hook up with. At this point I'll just live my life as I always have, and hope someday that I'm lucky enough to find a casual partner before I'm too old to do this sort of thing...No offense Shale.
You could always print up some t-shirts that specify exactly what you're looking for, then start taking daily strolls through known gay neighborhoods.
Yeah and I can intentionally rip the seam of a pair of pants, and once I get a few lookers, pretend that I'm continually dropping something on the ground. Maybe even ask for some "assistance".
I know what you are going through Profezzor. I am having a hard time finding men too. I frequently go to gay bars and clubs, but lately the only pleasure I've been able to experience is just giving oral sex. Don't get me wrong, I love putting a long hard dick in my mouth, but sometimes I wish that some stud would bend me over and teach me a few things.
^^^Now you're thinking! Maybe you could invite one of your married co-workers over to watch the big game one Sunday, then tell him 'the profezzor gonna go get some more beer and nachos', and when he's least suspecting it, yell 'pillow fight!' and knock him over the head with one from your bedroom. During the resulting kerfuffle, you can stop for a moment, look deep into his eyes, and say 'dude... I.... I... think I'm gay, dude!'. I can guarantee you that this will work.
^^^ Walking up to me (in private), unzipping my pants, and holding my cock in your warm theraputic hands would also work too. Give me a sloppy wet bj, and I guarantee that I'd return the favor. Same with rimming, and anal. I'd prefer to give, but receiving is also a welcome option.
