Ok...what does it mean when your ex-bf invites you to see his band play, and stuff... see I live about an hour and a half away from him and hes invited me to come up. Hes never done this before, is he just pulling the whole "just friends" thing or does he want something more? Im pretty sure he knows I still like him, as the last time I talked to him I asked him straight out if he had a gf yet, to which he said "no". Its getting abit confusing now cos im not sure if he still likes me or if we are just friends. We broke up b/c of the distance between us and said we'd just be friends for now. so what does this mean, because if he does want me back, I wont know what to do. (or maybe its all in my head)
Maybe he's just thinking of you and wants to see you in person. It could be that he's interested in hooking up with you or seeing what could come outta the night. If you're up for that, have a good time. If not, keep your lips to yourself..lol.
I dont think i'll go up and see him play his gig. I think im affraid of getting hurt and going up 2 see him will definately put me in the firing line 2 get hurt. Besides, hes not much of a friend anyway. And like someone told me, I maybe still hung up on him, but it doesn't mean I still like him....
Don`t go ..he will hurt you. if you two were friends it would be different, but he may not care so much for your welfare. Peace
me and my ex are about the same, we still see eachother and i go to see his band play and stuff, we are still good friends, thats what we were in the first place! i know how you feel, if he asked me out tomorow i would say yes with out a doubt! xxxxx
I think it means he wants to see you. Maybe just as friends, maybe a hook-up, whatever. I'm friends with several of my exs and I invite them to hang oout some times. I want to see them for the same reason I dated them-I have fun with them, and I care about them. I don't invite them over with an expectation, but I'm not opposed to things if the breakup was amicable. Peace
Hmmm, yer i told my friends that im not going to go to his gig and they all seem to think it was a good idea because they seem to think i desperately need to get over him, but im like 'Ellied', if he wanted me back, i'd say yes to the drop of a hat. Not something I want to be doing i dont think.
