Quick question bout women for women or anyone who wants to share...

I have a girlfriend who is the absolute world to me. We have great sex but I want to break her through to a level she doesn't expect that will give her an earth shattering explosive orgasm.

Any suggestions?

She says she doesn't get much from outside stimulation but more from penetration but we haven't explored much with outside, she says that anal gives her stronger orgasms as a precourser to sex, I wanna give her something new that she won't expect that will launch her head over heals.

Help!

Thanks!!

 

any one at all?

 

I think it's better to ask her rather than us. Even better, be adventurous, try some new things while asking her for lots of verbal feedback so you can calibrate what you're doing to increase her pleasure.

 

Something that has worked extremely well for me in the giving-pleasure department: while licking her clit, start using a finger on it, too. As her moans increase, slip two fingers into her vagina and gently massage her G-spot. Increase the pressure on her clit and G-spot, alternating with gentle movements. Finally, slip a lubricated pinky finger into her asshole and do everything at once.

This always results in a shattering orgasm.

 

you ahve some serious talent

 

Foreplay to me means the gentle art of kissing a female on the mouth around the earlobes, the neck, maybe gentle nibbling on the backs of the arms ....

The idea is not to lose any teeth because you're sloppy or rough, rough is crap, gentle, careful and deliberate is very good.

Caressing her body with your dry soft and smooth hands all over her body not "JUST" her errogenous zones, in fact don't concentrate on her errogenous zones at all.

She'll be thinking hmmm he's not just thinking of himself which will impress her.

The entire human body is covered with millions of sensitive receptors called "skin cells", learn the art of caressing a women all over for hours on end, that is what I have found will ultimately cause her to achieve an orgasm.

Never enter a women/girl that is dry in the vagina, you must make sure she is at the very least dripping wet.

Drippin' wet is the vagina's way of saying "I'm ready baby !!!".

There is no mystery about what will turn a women on.

Its just affective stimulation until her body can no longer stand it and the orgasm is a point where the brain releases oxytocin and other opiates the give her the involuntary spasmodic vaginal barrel contractions.

If your man enough you have a long night ahead of you, you may need to spend as much as 7+ hours on foreplay to get her to that rare and elusive orgasm very few women ever experience - that really will make her think "fuck !!" OMG that was incredible and brake down and cry because its the most beautiful thing that she has ever experienced up to then.

Also realise that hand caresssing is gliding your hands over a womens body like the wings of a butterfly, its very different to grinding a womens vagina that gets red and very sore, you have to perfect this to achieve the right stimulous of her body.

Grinding is something you do to a weld, hand caressing is something you do to achieve orgasm.

Its not just hand caressing you have to experiment to know how to do it right, read my other posts to get a better idea.

Good luck !!

Actually luck is for fools, realy artful lovers know how to please their women through experimentation and thoughtful planning.

I think the biggest thing to understand is that you must be genuine, if your just thinking about fucking her well thats is just what it sounds like.

Making love to a women is when you really do love her, your gentle, careing, thoughtful, kind, you want the relationship to work, and the other thing about a womens orgasm is it will push you into another level that you never expected and that is the best thing about a womens orgasm, it will give you the best ejacualtion of your life.

And if you are "special" you will also experience sexual pleasure beyond what most ever imagined was possible.

Orgasm is heroin whithout the side affects.

 

Ben, I bet you're great at it, but when you describe it, you make it sound like work!

 

How about the obvious, put a small vibrator in her ass if she says that anal helps her. The dual stimlation might do it for her.

 

I would like to think so but no I'm not.

The powerful orgasm that I happened to experience was in part my own technique, the other part is her.

If everything is right the moons are aligned etc, you do everything correctly maybe you can get to a woman to have a powerful orgasm.

I've been fortunate to get a few others to mild orgasms, but nothing like that last one.

Unfortunately all women are different, their history is different, what they have experienced is different, all the bad experiences are different, so I guess it really depends on things like were her parents religious, did they associate bad behaviour or some negative feeling with their genitals.

Do they like sex ?

I think its factors like this that affect them and their experience of sex and whether they can enjoy sex.

I think its true that nothing comes easy.