Fingering?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by pityu, Nov 20, 2008.

  1. pityu

    pityu Member

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    My girlfriend and i are together ,for like 3 months,and because she is virgin she does not want have sex yet,instead she gave me hand jobs and is thinking about bj.I fingered her but didnt manage to make her .cum any ideas pointer for making her cum?

    I have never got down on anybody,any tip for that?
     
  2. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I think you should go down on her. That will spice it up and you should play with her clit.
     
  3. beyondhuman

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    its actually kind of hard... face her, spread her out with one hand and rub her clit in circles with the other (lubed well).

    or if you want faster/more regular results go down plus its more fun
     
  4. OldTroll

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    Good advice yet again from SophieClair!

    Also, don't ask her to reciprocate. If you make her feel good without making her feel obligated, you'll get a hell of a lot more in return.



    Have fun and play safely!
     
  5. day_tripper77

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    That's a really good piece of advice.

    Don't make her feel like you're doing it only to get something in return. Do it because you really want to, because you want to make her feel good.

    Chances are if you're sincere, she'll be able to tell and she'll want to make you feel good too!
     
  6. Funkateer

    Funkateer To swing on the spiral

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    dont forget the ice cubes :D

    it drives them absolutely wild
    I like to start at the neck with the icecube in my mouth and gentle kiss all the way down her supple breasts to that beautiful tummy
    and finally the most glorious part
    slowly lick around her outer lips with the ice cube in tow
    switch the ice cube to the side of your cheek and start penetrating with you tongue
    come up and give her a big grin and slip that ice cube straight inside her pussy and start eating champ!

    If she doesnt love all the possibility that sex could amount to after that then you got a problem
     
  7. day_tripper77

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    that kinda got me all hot and bothered.. i need to go call my man!
     
  8. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    WHy not have her show you what works for her ...mutual masterbation is a pretty good ice breaker.
     
  9. OldTroll

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    Ice breaker? back in the olden days (my days) mutual masturbation was pretty serious stuff! But then, Pres. Clinton didn't have sex with Monica either.
     
  10. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    I meant ice breaker for them since they already been together...kinda..
     
  11. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    Be gentle! The biggest problem I have with men feeling me up is that they're too rough. Or they rub directly on my clit, which is too sensitive for that.

    Try rubbing gently in circles around her clit with your fingertip, just barely touching it. But make sure she's wet before you do that. It's very uncomfortable to be fingered when I'm dry. Reach your finger inside her vagina to get some of her wetness.

    Ask her what feels best to her. Ask her to move your finger with her hand.

    Good luck. Being fingered by a man who knows what he's doing is wonderful :)
     
  12. OldTroll

    OldTroll Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    It's good to hear it from an expert. Thanks!

    Isn't a tongue better than a finger?
     
  13. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    Yessssssss :)
     
  14. pityu

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    Thanks so much for the responses, I hope to hear more.
     

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