Any tips for a couple using craigs list to find a 3rd for a threesome? Canadian!

Hey everyone. My wife and I are currently in a pursuit to fulfill her (and of course mine as well) fantasy of finding a friend with benefits to share. She's looking for a female only and we're basically stuck on where to look.

We live in Ontario Canada and don't mind travelling to meet someone, but we're not talking driving to Texas or something rediculous lol. So the only thing so far we've been able to find that seems to acomodate would be craigs list. So far no hits, we've answered as few ads for girls looking in there but were met with hostile people (even when we word all our letters kind and conservative) who seemed a bit out there lol.

I guess we're going to be using CL more and more to hopefully find a third, is there anything we should watch for? Any tips on making sure the person on the other end IS the person on the other end? We know not to answer spammers that snag our email from the ad (and we know there is no prince in nigeria with 200,000,000USD for us too lol). Any tips would be great, even if any fellow Canadians know of a good couples hookup site or service would be nice. We're new to this but very eager to learn anything we can! :cheers2:

 

Have you tried the site Kijiji. I placed an add for my wife and I and we got over 30 responses in an hour. Of course a few were pure nobs. BTW it is a free site, and pretty good for limited amount of spam

 

Great info, thanks a ton we'll post up and hopefully turn someone up :cheers2:


PS Are we even using the RIGHT personal ad lol. We posted in "casual encounters" because we translated that thinking it was code for one night stands or the like. We aren't really a man seeking woman, or a woman seeking woman, but both, so casual seemed right? We're such personal ad noobs lol :hat:

 

I placed it in Casual and also Couples seeking Couples, just on a whim. You just have to go with the gut instinct. I included a pic and in my ad stated replies without pics will not be read and deleted. When they reply to you with a pic the pic they send to you should include your picture from the ad you placed, it just helps make it a little authentic. You can state this in the ad like this'Reply with pic, must include our ad pic in your photo, replies without pic will not be read and deleted"

I hope you get what you are looking for, we did and had a great time and are hoping to do it again, but we want to add more to it, thinking a couple. Be Safe.

 

Thanks a ton, I never thought of telling them to include our pic in their pic. That's better than saying hold up a newspaper lol. Hopefully we can find someone, I'd try the couples lf couples section but don't want to be out of place only looking for a woman instead of two. Thanks again

 

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=338246 heres our story. we are looking a meeting him sometime soon. of course it's always easier to find another male. i imagine the female thing would be hard. when we do this our next adventure will probably be a couple just so my GF can eat some puss.

 

Good luck in your search. We had 2 serious replies over a month give or take (not bad considering where we live, it's not exactl NYC or Toronto). We're talking to what sounds like a very nice girl right now and hopefully all will work out. We're nervous and excited, it's almost like being in highschool again and looking to explore new things.