last week i found out a girl liked me, i like her too. So everyday we talk and the all of the sudden she changes. I try to find ut what the problem is and she deflects. at this point i was about to ask her out but her last BF was a real dick to her, so she tells me she isnt ready to date yet. Then i find out that her ex likes her again, and now a week later they are dating. i have no idea what to do. do i keep liking her? or just give up. help would be greatly appreciated
first off, you can't like/dislike someone on demand, that's something you have to figure out for yourself. also, is this guy she'd now dating the same guy she said was a dick to her? if so then maybe she still has some feelings for him and is ready to reconcile or something. or maybe when she said he was a dick to her, she was just going through an emotional phase and wasn't thinking about him in such a positive light. or maybe she didn't like you in the same way you liked her, and wanted to spare your feelings? i dunno. if a good opportunity arises perhaps you could ask her about it. like "hey, i thought you said he was a dick" or something i dunno.
the guy dumped her and dated her best friend within 1 day of dumping her. she told me that it was a dick move. but thank you for the insight you have helped me alot thank you
