Ok here goes.. Me and my girlfriend has been dating for a little over 6 months now, and things arent the same, We argue a bunch over my ex girlfriend. She thinks that i was trying to get back with her when we first started to date but we werent. I just cant get that through her head.. my ex and i just would text nothing more, it was a hey whats up kind of thing. But my girlfriend instists i was trying to get back with her. She is very jealous of my ex. Since she thinks i didnt like her at all she has lost all trust for me and i want it back very badly. Another thing she gets upset about is that i had a friend over and he told her that i had my ex stay the night over a year before i met her. Nothing went on because of nerves, but she is mad because i didnt tell her my past because i didnt know i had too. Other than that, my family is in love with her, everybody from parents, siblings, gparents, great gparents, EVERYBODY! We have sex pretty often and thats when our love for eachother really comes out! Its just not "sex" its love. We see eachother all day everyday, and just chill dont really go out. I try to take her out but she says i wont like the movie but it comes down on her not wanting me to pay for her. I really want to show her how much i have really wanted this to work out, she says that shes just pissed off and sleepy most of the time cause we dont go on walks or anything. We mainly drive around or sit in my room and smoke. Whats the best way to talk to her about gaining trust. She is also very hard to communicate with, when i ask what she wants to change her response is I dont know, or when i know something is bothering her i ask her whats wrong and she gets mad at me. I dont want to break up with her, i want to work on our communication and trust issues but i have no idea how to get through to her. It would be so hard to lose her we go to the same school with around 120 students in it, we have 1st and 4th hour together. idk what to do. I feel like i am missing so much but if i think of something ill edit this.. WHat would you do in a situation like this. Thanks a bunch! Another thing.. She had a pretty bad time with some peice of shit boyfriends in the past and now she thinks most guys are assholes.. i dont want to be another asshole i want to be different than them.. i know its going to take time but things can change right?!-heyitsb-
I'm a pretty confident chick, but I fucking hate my fiancee's ex's. If I find out that he's been speaking to them I'm fucking pissed. They are in your past, leave them there if you think that you have a future with this chick. We don't like the feeling of competing with your past.
first of all , tell ur girl that u can see how much it bothers her that u are still in contact with ur ex, and because u love her, ur going 2 stop texting ur ex, then stop sitting in ur bed room smoking all the time and ask her wot she would like to do, and do it, also suggest things to do- the pictures ex ex and if u go to the pics ask her wot she would like 2 watch, things like this will show her u are thinking about her and just not ur self
^ agreed. do what i did make a pin-ya-ta thing. with her face on it. and both of yo beat the shit out of it. also sit her down and talk to her.
well i quit texting her when she got upset about it about 5 months ago..cause i noticed she didnt like it. we had a really good day today i told myself that y was having a positive energy day today and we were both just really happy all day long, no fighting no negative energy what so ever it was nice.. =]
ohhh do what i did for xmass last year. get a few dozen roses or what ever flower she likes. set the up in her room on the bed and what not. light some candles and get a teddy bear or some thing and put it on the bed. if you have to and you want it to work with her make sacrafices if you have argument. end it and tell her she was right even if she wasnt. if shes no arragent shell come around and appolagize. this is a huge help makes life easyer. may harm you pride a bit but youll live alsodo things you both enjoy. or make a deal one week you go do some thing she like snd the other something you like.
