I need sex but I feel bad ... when.

I have a taste for good looking women and I like sex. I like sex a lot.

The problem is that I cannot get sex from women, they don't like me and I cannot form a relationship with any women that I like. I have tried and tried very hard but it only ends in failure and disappointment.

Literally, I have given up. My solution has been to visit prostitutes. I live in Melbourne Australia where everything is legal and everyone is well looked after. There is very little reason for a young woman to need to resort to prostitution so I can safely assume a girl is doing it of her own free will. To put things into perspective an Australian check out chick will make $22 an hour in a lot of cases. So I just don't see a reason why in this country a person could be driven to such a career.

I view it as a fair business transaction. I'll pay $250-$300 for an hour and the girl will keep roughly $200 of that money. Not bad for an hours work. I still feel guilty for the girls because I think I am harming them or that they are in a miserable situation.

The main attraction is that I can rock up at one of these places and slap around some gorgeous young woman's ass and have sex with her how I want to and I am completely in control. Things that have been denied to me I can have, with some very attractive women.

The problem is that I feel guilty about it all. I guess I am coming here for approval but also some advice. I know I don't have the best habit. But it is hard to say no and never return. When women turn me down all the time and I look at myself in a mirror at a shop or in the elevator at work and see what a monster I am deep down I understand that this is the only way I will get to the flesh of a pretty young woman.

I am 6'5 and a half inches but I weigh almost 150kg's, I am overweight, but not by as much as people would think. My fitness is not great, but I just ran 40km's and did 30 push ups so I am not in abysmal shape.

 

being overweight shouldn't have anything to do with anything. my love interest is 290 lbs.. about 132 kg.

be careful with prostitutes. they could be infected with diseases..

someone will come for it.. your problem is that you're looking for love. remember, a watched cake never rises, a watched clock never ticks. you have to stop looking and let it find you. it will come

 

"The main attraction is that I can rock up at one of these places and slap around some gorgeous young woman's ass and have sex with her how I want to and I am completely in control."


Just a guess here: Maybe you have some deeper issues.

 

You've got to love yourself first, man.

Don't go to whores is my opinion.

 

^^^yes issues, such as being shallow...

 

I know it, but everything is done with a condom and they get tested for STD's once a month. I got tested 6 months ago and everything was clean. You take a risk... and that is part of the problem but the risk is not huge.

 

AIDS is HUGE dude....

 

you never know if they are lying about being clean or not, as people will always lie, and you never know if they are just saying they are clean and get regularly tested because they want your business. if they tell you they could/do have diseases and aren't regularly tested you aren't gonna want to do business. and just because you got tested 6 months ago doesn't mean you couldn't have somthing now. it could take up to 6 months for the HIV virus to show up in your system. condoms are not 100% effective.. you still always run the risk of disease. also, with some incurable diseases, such as the herpes virus, a condom won't necessarily help you, as it can be spread though skin-to-skin contact.

just be careful.

 

I know there is a risk but it is really not much greater than simply hooking up with some random.

I am reasonably educated so scare tactics are not going to work on me. I'll visit once a month on average.

 

I am not trying to scare you.Someday when you get rough with the wrong chick and she stabs you,you will be scared enough..Good Day.

 

i do not mean to be rude, but you are obviously not 'reasonably educated' if you are relying solely on condoms and the word of a stranger to protect yourself.

 

Shouldn't you be in school ?

 

Why are you being rude?

 

because he's a shallow dick head who is incapable of making real connections with people so he relies on prostitutes to get his rocks off....
imagine how those poor girls feel when they see he's next on the list

 

Your coming here and telling us that you go to whores to get laid, because once girls get to know you they wont fuck you....you think you have any right to be rude to Seizedbyanger? She is one of the most beautiful and intellegent posters on here. You got something bad to say about her, keep it to yourself.


Maybe you should work on your social skills, so a normal girl will like you. It's clear by reading this post alone thats what your issue is.

 

no school today, tomorrows thanksgiving.

also, if you don't want to hear peoples opinions that differ from your own, then you shouldn't be posting on an internet forum where there are lots of amazing individuals with an array of different opinions.

 

Because for a brief second I forgot how stupid Americans are and decided I'd ask for some advice.

Instead of advice I got the typical bullshit American response.

' OMG STD'S WILL TAKE OVER THE WORLD - QUICK INVADE KOREA'

Next you will be telling me to find Jesus.

There is a risk - I know that - But you do not understand the world outside of your country. Here it is legal and regulated inside brothels. There are laws and one of them is a sexual health check six month. The other is that condoms MUST be used.

Brothels can lose their licenses and prostitutes face massive fines if condoms are not used.

Would you risk a multimillion dollar business by letting a girl not use a condom ? You - just - wouldn't do it, not in any significant number that would greatly increase the risks.

If I were picking up whores off the street or going to an unlicensed brothel it would be different.

 

Go and play outside with your friends. The internet is for boring old people.

 

how would you know what a 'typical american response' is, when it seems to me as if you have never been to US to experience americans first hand. also, not every reply you got was from an american.

edit: i also don't recall anyone saying anything in italics. we are simply giving you our thoughts, if you don't like them, you should have thought twice before posting your sob story about not being able to stay in a relationship on an internet forum. very sorry to inconvenience you.

 

Stupid Americans Huh??You are a douche.
I could give to shits if you get a STD and die or not,it would be one less asshole in this world.