Foreskin BJ issues

First of all, I would say that his claim of soap causing pain to the glans is just a load of b/s.

As BMR has already pointed out, both male & female genitals are alike inasmuch as they both need washing, but the similarity doesn't end there - there are, in fact, genetically one & the same thing. The clitoris & the glans are equivalent organs, with the foreskin & the hood being the equivalent protection coverings. Obviously I can't state for certain from experience, being male, but I imagine the sensations experienced are the same for the clitoris as they are for the glans, therefore if you don't feel a stinging pain when you apply soap to your clitoris, then neither should he when he applies soap to his glans.

However, if he still insists that he does experience discomfort, then if he is being honest about it (which personally I doubt) there is clearly something wrong, so he should really make an appointment to see his GP. Perhaps he has an allergy to certain types of soap - quite possibly to the perfumes in them. Maybe he should try Simple Soap, which although being a brand name is also descriptive of what it is, so an equivalent should be available whichever part of the world you may be in.

I shave my pubic hair once a week while in the bath, and I use normal bath soap to do so, and the very act of soaping up more often then not gets me extremely aroused, so I quite often end up making full use of the additional lubrication of the soap to really enjoy a good masturbation session before rinsing off & pulling the plug, and this most certainly does NOT cause any discomfort whatsoever. I have tried using Veet, and that does cause a great deal of burning, but the same certainly does not apply to soap.

 

I'd imagine that it's pretty clean too!




Have fun and play safely!

 

I'm uncut, and just like these other guys I wash my dick with soap every day. It never burns. I'm not going to call him a liar, but I can't imagine making a woman go down on my stinky cock. I'd be embarassed as hell. That just seems terribly inconsiderate to me.

 

^ indeed.

 

What exactly was bullshit? I use soap and a washcloth to clean my cock in the shower just like I do the rest of my body. I see no way soap could cause burning on a healthy cock unless your getting it in your pee-hole which you obviously don't wanna do.

 

I may be the only here that thinks he might not be lying to you. My glans are still sensitive because I got a foreskin problem(but that's another story). Point is, I doubt he's pulling his foreskin often thus not washing it and making the glans more sensitive. Because when I touch the glans, it's really sensitive. Maybe he's afraid of washing them cuz indeed they hurt if you haven't really had touched them before or something.

 

I take exception to your broad statement, “Skin is skin.” There are big differences in the nerve concentration of skin of different areas of the body as well as areas where the skin is even of a different type. Compare the heel of your hand to your inner upper arm to the inside of your mouth to your glans penis. Skin is NOT skin. I also take exception to your flat statement that “Unless you have an open wound or infection of some kind there is no way soap can cause burning.” We are all different and have different skin sensitivities as well as different reactions to irritants.

I strongly agree that washing a normal penis with the usual bath soap should not cause any irritation in most cases.

In retrospect I acknowledge that we were both guilty of the same crime in our earlier posts …. making short flat statement without any explanation. I apologize for my error … and have recommended that the arresting office attend sensitivity training.

 

wow, what a lack of compassion on this board

soaps can be irritating down there, some people are more sensitive then others, the best advice is try different soaps, maybe some that are non-antibacterial.

just washing with water is the genrally agreed on appropriate way to clean the area since it is sensitive, granted if you use soap on it daily it will likely desensitize to it

keep in mind women can smel the same way even with proper hygiene, guys are just less likely to complain

 

AS much as I love you Cloud (and I do, very much) I'm going to have to respectfully disagree here. It may have just been my highschool but you couldn't walk threw my caf. without hearing men complaining about their girlfriends pussy. I can't count the amount of times I've heard men compare a pussy to fish, there was a few men who posted that very statement on this board!

 

Feeeesh.

 

very true, I meant in more in the way of during sex, men are much less likely to complain about it during sex but will talk about it later.

 

I'm not saying that this is true of all men and, as a member of the male gender can be ashamed to admit it (although it's probably much the same when girls get together as well), but 90% of what is talked about is merely talk - especially amongst adolescents. More often than not, the descriptions they are coming up with are nothing more than what they've read in magazines on online, when in actual fact they are really virgins, but would never have the face to admit this to their peers for fear of losing street cred. It's a vicious circle - every one of them is convinced that all the others are the studs, and he's the only virgin amongst them, so he has to do his best to convince all the others of his own masculinity. I even admit having been through the same stage in my own younger days - typical all mouth & trousers, without any real opportunity to put use the mouth for anything other than talking, or to remove the trousers when with a partner for anything other than a bit of routine teenage mutual masturbation.

At least in forums, such as these, there is a certain degree of anonymity which enables people to speak out truthfully without fear of reprisal.

 

I think I need to retract (pun intended) my earlier statement somewhat too. Maybe this guy is telling the truth. I mean it's not my experience but that doesn't mean it couldn't be his. Here is a positive suggestion I read about somewhere. Maybe he should try and was with just water and then dust his stinger with cornstarch. Seriously, both men and women can do this. Totally natural.

 

oh, I forgot to mention; I have no personal experience with this. But I have never had a problem either. So take this a just a suggestion. I can't see how it could hurt though.

As for the smell of a women's genitals. If their clean, they do have an scent, but that's a good thing. I think as we mature our sexuality changes. I actually love my women's scent. It's erotic and she knows it. She will paint my the bridge of nose and lip with her scent. Love it!

 

As for the smell of a woman's genitals, having had my nose in and around the area for years - I've never smelled a bad smell, never been turned off by the scent, and, the gods know, have been drawn into that wonderful taste and feel every frickin' time. Gals, you're great!