Did he ever have genuine feeling to me?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by cheesepie, Nov 25, 2008.

  1. cheesepie

    cheesepie Guest

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    I know this is stupid to ask as I know the answer, but I want to ask you guys to insist my understanding.

    Hmm the story is I met a guy from chatting through a dating site in September. We met and he asked me to go out for dates. We lived in the different countries. He told me that he would fly to meet me every couple months if possible to get to know me. He called me two times a day, we promised to be girlfriend/boyfriend.

    We met again in early of Nov and went to travel together. We had sex. After that, (he told me that) he travelled with his parents for a week and worked so hard. He called me once a week after he came to meet me. He told me that he couldn't fly that often anymore as his benefit to fly in discount price was terminated. He told me that he didn't want to hurt me as he couldn't come to meet me that often as he promised, then he wanted to end our relationship.

    My question is he got what he wanted already, so he has no interest to talk to me anymore. Is that correct? Do you think he ever have any faith to me from the start? Just want to get the opinion from you guys here. Thanks for your comments though.
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    If he isn't speaking to you at all anymore I would say that your right, chances are that he got exactly what he wanted from you and thats that.
     
  3. lived.to.death

    lived.to.death Member

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    it`s unlikely he was 'in it for the sex'. he was there all those other times, communicating etc.. he obviously had some issue/s, that made him break it off. i`m sorry
     
  4. laurenq

    laurenq Member

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    Yea I think thats the hazard with relationships via the web and the phone. That sucks that happened to you but you need to move on.
     
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