can't show her how i really feel!

Ok, so heres the situation... I met this girl through a mutual friend when she was visiting us down at Mizzou. We met up at a party (i had finished a few drinks) and we really hit it off and ended up sleeping together. So the weekend ends and she heads back to her place at missouri state. Anyway, she proceeded to text me to 'keep in touch.' So we had been talking frequently with several drunk calls from her saying "i have a crush on you" yada yada yada. I arranged a trip to visit her this past weekend. We had a great time and slept together but I noticed something weird. Throughout the day i noticed i had a tough time showing her how i felt,,, for example a time would come when my giving her a compliment would have been appropriate, but i didn't. I just can't shake the notion that i'm giving off a major "just friends" vibe. However whenever the drinks started flowing, I was acting the way i wanted to act.

so, how can i give off an 'im attracted to you' sort of vibe?? if that makes any sense

 

just tell her about this ^

 

Best advice: Leave Missouri, go to an institution of higher learning, and you won't have to ask advice on this shitty forum.

 

Exactly the thing to do. You could/should copy your post and email it to her. Good luck!



Have fun, play safely, and eat your honey!

 

i just don't know what to do! i have trouble putting myself out there, mostly out of fear of rejection and figure i'd just spare myself the embarrassment (jeez, that makes me sounds really insecure haha)... i just have this feeling that she is way out of my league and have no idea what she is doing with me, i think i'm subconsciously intimidated by her becuase sometimes i tense up on the phone while its ringing... so should i call and tell her? text? what would you guys do in my situation??

i love trolls

 

NO .... do not call her .... NO .... do not text her ....

YES .... Print out both of your posts to this thread .... talk with her face to face .... tell her something like, "There's something I want to tell you, but I'm too shy and too embarrassed .... so would you please read this question that I posted on line?'

The absolute worst that can happen is that she could laugh at you and call you a jerk .... and if she does that she isn't something that a nice guy would want to be with anyway .... so why give a hoot. If she politely says no, then politely thank her and eat your embarrassment .... the pain will be a hell of a lot less that constantly thinking about her and not acting.

Get brave and just do it .... and quit ignoring the suggestions made here.



Have fun, play safely, and be brave!

 

but see, heres the problem... were currently 3.5 hours apart... She is heading out of town to visit family tomorrow around three and will be gone all week. The next time i will have the chance to see her face to face will probably be over our month break for christmas.. its weird because i've never saw why someone would want to get caught up in long distance relationship type deals but i've never felt this way about anyone, especially so soon. this is so frustrating...

 

update... so after a days worth of contemplation, frustration, and (mild!) depression over this woman, i clutched my balls and pitched up the phone (i know, what youre thinkin, 'wow, this kid has the spine of a field mouse!' but its so weird how tense and on-edge i've been today) So its ringin and i tense up, she answers and i told her about how great it was to spend time with her, how much i can't wait to see her again, etc and she responded positively! she said she can't wait for at least christmas break to see each other again. you have no idea the effect this had on me, i feel like i'm on a painkiller or somethin... god its such a weird thing because i felt like complete shit today and couldn't get this off my mind!... anyway, thanks old troll and lived.to.death for the advice to tell her how i feel! and hey, thanks eric for finding my thread worthy to post under haha!

 

Good for you! Even a field mouse has testicles!

Treat her the way a cat lover treats a cat and you won't need good luck!



Have fun and play safely!
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