i started going out with this girl but she's completely unexperienced, sucks at giving hand jobs, and doesnt go down low enough when she gives head, hasnt finished me off once, and doesnt like being fingered. we really like each other but this shits starting to piss me off.
It sounds to me that there's a good chance that you're going to remain pissed off. Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!
It takes time to get into the swing of things if you've never been with someone before. I bet your first sexual partner wasn't too thrilled with you either. Take your time with her, pressuring her into anything wont make her want to do it anymore, deep throating takes tons of practice. Think of this as a oppertunity to have a partner thats trained (in a way) to do what you like the most, however, like any good training it takes time.
You need to coach her. discuss with her that she is not doing it right then tell her how you like to have it done.
Man, give her a chance. She's inexperienced, you said... well you were inexperienced too once, and I bet your first lovers weren't through the roof the first couple times you were with them. If you want her to do things differently, don't expect her to read your mind, just tell her what you like and make suggestions... but praise her as well, because her mouth doesn't have to be anywhere near your dick... she's doing it because she wants to please you and that deserves a shitload of respect.
well how many orgasms have you given HER big man? dont talk shit if you suck yourself... all im sayin.
On a slightly off topic note, I'm inexperienced but I think I do ok. My boyfriend said of all the girls he's ever gotten blowjobs from, I'm the best. Very nice to hear. I suck at kissing though, and I know the sex can't be earth shattering, but hey. At least I try.
EMAT101 - - Four widely respected ladies, sarahrei, wrathofjade, sophieclair, and puppy5990, have given you some excellent advice. Now the choice is up to you; you can read and heed or you can remain pissed off until your GF decides to go elsewhere.
Making girls or women do things guarantees success in most things, doesn't it? You'll go far in life my friend.
Not all girls are into porn. I don't see why he is just not telling her what he likes, instead of getting mad at her for not reading his mind. Which to be honest is probably pissing her off.
Infact I think that alot of inexperienced girls would be very put off by being made to watch porn. I know I used to be.
Have you tried being more authoritative in bed. Not in a rude way, but in a respectful way, tell her what you like and use it as away to enhance both your sex lives. Hopefully you guys can bolster communication between the both of you and maybe in turn, she can be more vocal about her sexual preferences.
My last girl was a virgin , sexual experience doesnt mean a thing...its what is going on in both our heads at that moment that matters...sex is mostly in your mind anyway. Give the girl a break....what if YOU wernt all that hot in her opinion ???
Dude same think is happenin to me, theres this girl im considering "going out" with but she doesnt like to kiss, doesnt like to give head, and doesnt like to be eaten out... So what do I do?? Even I don't think I could just like hug her then stick it in her, I need something before... but maybe shell loosen up when the french lover (me) starts doin his thing.. lol
