a small whine and what to do?

so. i have had this boy in my life for 5 years (exclusive for first 3 and just been casually sleeping together since) ... and i love him and care about him a lot.
i need him in my life.
and i just met this boy, who i like, and who likes me... but original boy gets jealous and i dont think i can deal with both of them at the same time.
i dont want to throw away a promising romance because the original boy doesnt want a commitment anymore.

i need more than what he is giving me, but i dont want to let go.

*whinge*lol

 

duh, you tell the first boy that you are with him exclusively and then continue to fuck new boy behind his back.

 

tell both boys you like them but don't want a relationship. get the best of both worlds

 

She cant be a real girl cause if she was she would have manipulated both of the guys and this thread never would have started.

 

your right, i am not a real girl, i dont play games and i dont manipulate. i tell it like it is. it seems to get me further and into more meaningful relationships then my bitchy girl counterparts.

 

If he doesn't want a commitment anymore, he CAN'T say you can't see the other boy at the same time...

 

women....im not even gonna say anything...:cheers2:

 

Oh Memi - it's a pickle. I like boy No.1 a lot but you need and deserve what boy No.2 will give you (hopefully). Boy No.1 must understand this.

 

I don't think any one comes to this thread anymore.

 

Nah, we read this thread on a daily basis

 

Ick, I need to get rid of the one hanging on me atm.

Ideas?

 

I was going to post some advice, but then I realized some hilarious guy necroposted and she probably had this figured out by now.
I love it when people bring up old threads, the more useless the better.

 

Most of us have it bookmarked, in fact.

 

I bet you were excited to see it in your usercp this morning...it's just like Christmas!

 

In fact, I think a majority of the regulars here share my sentiments! I'm about to get the turkey out of the oven and light the menorah!