No one for me

Discussion in 'True Love' started by BFB, Nov 18, 2008.

  1. BFB

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    and never well be. Its been so long sence i ve had a hug i ve forgotten how it feels. no one ever tells me that they love me or any thing of that kind.

    i know this may not be the place to talk about this kinda thing. but i just want someone to care for me.

    dont bother to reply am not worth it anyway.:(
     
  2. OhioKevin

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    I have been there and everyone deserves a reply to your current way of thinking. Im 28 and never in my life do I know what love feels like... NEVER. I have remained positive for a long time and still know that one day things will be different. I know we all have differnet ideas about love and companionship ect... and of course we want someone to care.

    Yeah I know its hard sometimes to stay positive, especially when its been years since we have had a sincere conversation, hug, some sort of affection... I have been there. I have also felt like you and thought that it would never happen. Keep meeting people, having a positive outlook and attitude and good things will follow.

    Again everyone deserves some attetion and if I could hug you through the screen now I would. Have a better day tom :)
     
  3. BFB

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    That makes no differance people have proven that they dont care about me. never have never well. My own dad gave me away at the age of 5. people care about no one. not here not any where. a proven fact.
     
  4. iaxiloll

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    I believe that one has to really love ones self in order to be able to be really comfortable around others. It is a kind of first step. It is a bit hard for some one to treat something with respect that you do not.
     
  5. Icktongo1

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    Just because your dad gave you away when you were 5 doesn't mean that nobody else in the whole world cares about you. You just gotta get up and go make someone happy, even if it's something you don't want to do. Just think of ways to make someone else happy, and then i'm sure your happiness will soon follow.
     
  6. iriegnome

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    Hey, there is someone for everyone. Keep your cool and think to yourself you deserve someone. It is a simple fact, tall-short, fat-skinny, blonde-bald, there is a woman within your circle of life that will want to be with you. Don't give up and never stop trying.
     
  7. OldTroll

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    Since Trolls aren't gay I won't give you a hug, but here's a big wet sloppy kiss for you.
     
  8. Bonsai Ent

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    You should probably start caring for yourself first.
    If even you can't be enthusiastic about yourself how on earth do you expect other people to be?

    The world is what you make of it.
     
  9. sophieclair

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    Yep:D
     
  10. mountaingirl08

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    I was thinking about what you said that we will be hippies again. It seems like so long since "back in the day." Some things I try to forget.
     
  11. BFB

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    well little miss sophieclair whats a kid like u know about life? ur only 20 to my age ur a kid
     
  12. OldTroll

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    Careful my friend. SophieClair has friends that carry baseball bats!



    Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!
     
  13. BFB

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    Well Sr. you are not my friend and if her friends where real men they would not need all those BATS to hide behind. Just like the cops with out the guns there nothing only hiding behind them. They are COWARDS.
     
  14. OldTroll

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    Well said sweetheart! [​IMG]

    A big Troll hug . . . . you make me so horny!

    And another wet slobbery kiss on your cute little pink lips.
     
  15. Bonsai Ent

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    I tend to classify childishness by emotional maturity, in which my friend you are as yet scarcely able to walk.

    Lift yourself up boy.
     
  16. Icktongo1

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    I know getting fucked over in life sucks, and yes it will happened again and again, but just be happy and love yourself because you know you arn't the one fucking other people over(I hope), and because you are taking the pain, someone else is not, so you saved a life! Maybe... But it's all good just be happy to be here anyways, even if it sucks, you only have one chance to make yourself worth something, so why not get up and do it instead of sitting on a computer whining about it. you CAN do whatever you want(Flying doesn't count unless you use a plane)
     
  17. ZenDragon

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    I care for you, and I don't even know you. Your honestly speaks to me. Look i've spent most of my life alone, even when I was married I was till alone. Im getting divorced now, my wife fell in love with someone else, and Im more alone than I have ever been. BUT I know what love is and I am still optimistic that I can find it if I only keep an open mind. Stop looking, and just be content with the person you are, and you will find that it will come to you.
     
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    if you're looking for advice i have it, volunteer. help someone else that's in need. it takes your mind off your troubles and helps you feel good about your life. it's a step toward feeling better about yourself and it helped me a lot. find a group of people that you share a common interest with and get together. meetup.com is great for that.

    speaking of dads, mine isn't anything to write home about either and i often think my life would be better if i wasn't subjected to his abuse. there's no way of knowing that though. but despite his abuse, i turned out to be a good person in many ways. obviously you're sensitive and that's always good. i'm sure there's lots more good things about you that you're having trouble seeing right now. don't allow your father's mistakes to dominate your future. if anything he deserves your pity.

    one more thing, if good advice comes in a 20 year old package, i'm not too proud to listen. children often speak in a simple honesty that is very wise.
     

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