u use condoms?

yeaa, i have yet to have sex. but wahtever, when it comes itll come. and yeah, ill use a condom. unless its someone ive dated for a good time and i KNOW hes clean. but if it was someone i just met, DEFINITELY a condom. for oral sex, i donno, ive only had a blowjob, i never gave one, and i didnt use a condom then.

 

Just thought i'd explore and ended up on the gay forum, me and my girlfriend don't use condoms because i really find it hard to feel anythng that's nice, and it seems to hurt her (no problems with lube or anything) so I imagine it's the same for gay people

 

I don't use them, but I tend not to sleep around, and make anyone I'm going to sleep with get tested. I can't help it, I love having guys cum in me.

 

ive only had sex once with a girl too, im gay wouldnt you know, i didnt use a condom and it was my first time so i could give a fuck, get aids, give a fuck

 

Never use condoms. never have, never will

 

Ya'll are fools.

 

i don't use condoms. the part i'm worried about the most is impregnating someone. so most of the girls i sleep with are on birth control.

 

Yes, always.

 

Why? Do you want to die from HIV/AIDS?

 

I've been dating my boyfriend now for 2years we were both virgins when we met our first time we didn't use a condom and havn't ever since. We are very open to things in the bedroom so can I just ask are we bad for that? for not using comdoms I mean We both figure theres no harm if we were both virgins.

 

always

 

Actually you can't die from HIV. In the nd it's usually a severe illness that kills, such as pneumonia, as you don't have enough white cells left to defend your body.
Tho I accept it's a personal choice, I think if you are negative it's a lot better to try and stay that way, and condoms are the best way to protect yourself , not just from HIV but from other sexually transmitted diseases. Even Virgins you may trustyour partner but they may not be as honest as you think. At the end of the day, if you choose to have sex without a condom, I'dd hope you were aware of a possible outcome, being the contracting of a life threatening illness. We all have to take some responsibility for our actions. Like i have to take some responsibility for myne.


Back in 2000, I went to a party, a supposed straights party, with my then best mate. I got kinda wasted, and ended up being shagged by a couple of guys. To cut a very long story short. The result is I'm now HIV and Hep B+ . I had 6 years of hell, illness and extended stays in hospital, and I've been on Medication for 2 years. I'm on a drug called truvada, which is tenofivir and 3TC, I also take Atazanivir, and Ritonavir , I also have to take 4 immodium every day to cope with the side effects from that combination. (before Ataz, and Riton I was on Efavirenz, which has the worst side effects ever, and you cannot imagine what that does to you) Anyhow i can't have other drugs cos my liver is now moderatly fucked, stage 2 level 2 Cirrohsis, so thats on the downhill. Last year I got DVT, so I'm on warfarin for that, and i also got diabeties, and I'm on tablets for that but the doc says I'll have to start injections soon, cos my insulin levels are crazy. Now I got to start on other tablets for Onset Renal Failure, and of course they have side effects, like lower my blood presure , so I'dd have to have other drugs to increase it again. Look it's a bloody nightmare.
Before HIV I was very fit, and very athletic, but those days are gone. I physically can't do it anymore. It's enough to just get by somedays, and thats on the days when I don't think about suicide. And don't talk about depression. I know more or less whats coming, and for me it'll come a hell of a lot sooner, it matters not what i do, the result will be the same, and lets be honest, nothing in my future is gonna be that nice. I know there will come a time, when before I can't do it, I'll have to do what I have to. Well Life should'nt be like this for anyone.
Well wether you choose to have unprotected sex because you are negative or even positive, the effects of passing on HIV ruins lives. If you are happy to take that responsibility then good luck to you, just make sure your partner is aware too. Personally I don't think the experience of bare sex is worth this risk, but thats up to you.

 

Er............ have i killed this thread? Someone say something, have a Mass Debate if you like!

 

Thanks for the post Peet


Makes my jaw drop when guys say they go unprotected


Even long term partners, you are never really sure who else they are doing things with

 

Nope. You have not killed the thread at all.

You only silenced the guys, who for some reason, think that the seroconversion, Hep B and all the other VDs only happen to OTHER people any never to themselves. Cool, that's their prerogative and their responsibility. You have made your choices and have learned from them. You have been kind enough to share that knowledge with the rest of us here. What more can you do?

Unprotected sex ruins lives. Period.

If you want to play your own version of the Russian roulette, go for it. There is no one to stop you anyway.

I certainly have no intention of doing anything of the kind.

KD

 

I do during anal buy not oral.

 

I don't use a condom BECAUSE I am in a relationship and trust my boyfriend completely.. we both did the AIDS test at the beginning to be sure and we are both clear.