i have absolutely no life

I have no friends. I don't work. I have no hobbies. I don't go out.

All I do is surf the net, watch TV, and play video games.

ummmm...and thats all...

I also watch a glorious amount of porn. A gluttonous amount. Ok, not that much. But maybe a little above the average.

 

well congrats. i wish i didnt have a job. sounds like things could be worse to me. you could have my job, so chin up bash one out for old times sake.

 

umm, well its time to get out, make some friends huh?

if not, at least use your time on the PC wisely..
you can learn just about anything on the PC if you are capable of critical thinking
learn how to code html, or ASM, or c++, make some program and sell it online.. or practice in Digital graphic design.. make some cool artwork and sell that online.. there are instructions to learn it all.. and these are the things ive learned..

get a connection where you can buy products in bulk, and start selling things on ebay, start small, and work your way up..

for a little while, i was always in my house, barely left.. i still had friends but i was sick of everything for some reason so i didnt go out often lol

but over the years i learned ALOT of ASM with alittle C++ coding.. a little HTML.. and last year i started running an ebay store selling PSP games and batteries, started a collection of final fantasy stuff and started selling / trading with that.. and made quite a bit of money, was generating an extra 4000.00 about every 3-4 months with teh ebay store, now i dont have that PSP connection anymore, but i still sell/trade rare final fantasy items every now and then, so now, next year in a few months ill be going to college for computer science

my point is there is alot of things of stuff you can do on the net, hobbies to making large amounts of money .. and these are just some examples

 

Some of the things you do just sound great.
How old are you?
Do you go to school?
Why can't you find a job?

 

stop being such a pussy, get out of your comfort zone and away from your apartment. meet some people, make some friends. it's easier than you think, the first step is the hardest. maybe consider exercise as well, it will make you feel better.

 

I agree. I can be a scaredy cat, wallowing in my comfort zone. But I don't live in an apartment, I'm 17 living at home, still going to school. I can't drive, I have no license. Whenever I try an exercise regiment I always give up within a week.

myself: The reason I can't find a job is because none of the places I try are hiring, or none of them are hiring teens. Plus I never make a good impression: I'd probably be termed having bad "communication skills." As well, I have no driver's license so the places to choose from are limited. Public transportation sucks in my town.

mephist00: I've tried teaching myself C++, but it is boooorrring. And you need to assign yourself exercises to remember what you learn and be able to execute it. I might give it another try though.
Plus, I saw that Zeitgeist link in your window, it reminded me how I had always meant to watch it. I watched it today and it is some scary stuff. My faith in Christianity wasn't that strong in the first place but this has settles any question of faith. Crazy stuff: my whole perspective about the world has changed, still not sure if I believe everything said on there though.

Edit: Cross what I said. My skepticism is kicking back in and I'm not sure if I was just manipulated myself by watching this film. Swindled. Bamboozled. Fooled. Can't trust no one.

 

fine, so leave the house then. don't give up on the exercise. you don't have to follow a regiment, but if you want something to change you are going to have to make that change yourself. you can piss and moan all you like, but if you want happiness you're gonna have to work for it. all the best.

 

Aww... Snap out of it buddy!

 

Add masturbation to all that porn, you will forget about life! Shit, I don't even know how I am passing school!

 

Sounds like you just have no motivation at all. Maybe you have sum type of depression. I know when I wasn't on my depression meds I didn't have the motivation to do anything or talk to anyone.

 

that picture was mentally disturbing!!

 

yah dude i mean. im pretty much in the same position as you.

im not gonna put in an asshole way but honestly man you just gotta suck it up and go socialize and shit. make some b uddys. if you go to school just talk to smoe people you think are cool. or if you on the net just use fucking myspace or some shit to make friends from your town and meet up and shit.

im shy and shit man. so its hard to socialize i know dude but you just gotta work at it. if someone dont like you, who cares? if they do hell yah made some buddys.

uh hobbys man. dude i pluck some guitar at times and lsiten to music but i also find it hard to fuckin just like enjoy shit. i dont know just dont get pleasure outta shit much now. is it like that? shit sucks. no motivation but i guess same with amking friend we jsut gotta try.

jobs are kinda hard to get right now cause economy ithink, i can t find one either dude. jsut gotta wait til some people are hiring. and dont be lik me actually go try for it man. dont just be lik yah and then sit at your house and not go apply. put effort into it.

hell dude thats a ll igot to say, im giving that advice to myself as well im lazy as fuck dude ha.

 

shit man, I'll never stop being lazy. I don't feel like doing anything. I envy people with a drive to do things:like those kids in third-world countries that carry water on their heads for a living. Their drive is to survive. Everything is given to me so I have little drive.

I'm shy too man. I just can't figure out how to get over this. I've tried everything. I'm fixed, like a stone. I need some help.

 

This won't matter if you suicide.

Also, irony - tehdogster says he's a scaredy cat. :tongue:

 

Hey man, You sound just like me. Except I am homeschooled and have been for 10 years. But lately I have been going out with people, Chillin with my friends. I used to be a Hardcore WoW player, I still do play it but I went from playing 10 hours+ a day to playing like 3 hours 3-4 days a week. This all changed with a few times going and hanging out with people it got me to want to do it more, Now I am talking to a lot more people than I was few months ago.

 

to the op.

yeah man i see what you mean.

but what holds you back from socializing and making friends dude?

ah damn dude there could be alot of factors in why you feel lazy all the time.

diet, you gotta stay hydrated if you dont drink enough water that is very bad for you.

eat balanced meals and shit, drinking sodas and junk foods, although they might taste good, reallly bring you down to feel like shit man. like eat good breakfastand lunch and dinner, you know. and instead of kool aid or coke drink some juice if you want some sweet taste. always drink the water. have afruit here and there to.

that helped me feel better honestly.

and exercise. this one is the bitch to me. but i guess take a walk everyday and maybe do some small shit like sit ups and push ups and stuff. i tihnk it gets endorphins going to make you feel happy and stuff. i dont really do it alot but i should.

or maybe besides no exercise or good diet. its chemical imbalance like depression man. get it checked out. friend o mine got put on anti deppressants it helped him out, some people it dosent' though.

and id say just dont psyche yourself out man. if you think negative shit about yourself just dont worry about it. just chill out and think good shit. in fact all our lifes could be a whole lot worse.

i dont know man. its all up to you. do what you want man, just actually you konw try. i gotta do it to, just gotta quit being lazy i guess man.

 

Hey, im new here but maybe if your at school, try making a couple of friends, then kinda expanding it

also if you find exercise difficult then find something fun and fulfilling?
i love to longboard and skimboard

To me theres nothing better then a summer day at the beach with a few mates doing skimboarding, maybe your not in a place where you could do that but just find your own perfect hobby for exercise?

 

yeah man. actually i tryed to give you advice but as i said im in the same boat as you, dont ahve many friends ones i got never really come around, im not to good at socializing and i have trouble enjoying shit to and i dont have ajob.

but now im trying to get a job and i still suck at social skills though. good luck dude. i know how you feel.