akward situation that is bugging me.

so here's the shit.
i got a good friend. I've been friends with him for 3/4 years and seen him every single weekend. On the weekends we spend every moment together. (no homo). So a few weeks ago he brings his girlfriend down to the beach, (where we go every weekend, we live in different towns) , so it's just him, his GF, (who is chill), and me.

that weekend he brings some weed he got free from one of his friends during the normal week. I know his friend, but not that well. we have a lot of weed. It got all 3 of us baked two days in a row. It was my friend's, and my first time enjoying the wonders of the herb.

that weekend i give him 40$$ for some good weed. He says it will be a long time because he doesn't see his friend that gave him the weed/will get him weed often. I am perfectly fine with that. so, he says he has it 2 weeks ago, but for some shitty reason i can't go to the beach for 3 weeks. so next weekend i will be going there to get it. He says his friend took away the ammount of weed that we smoked the first time. (not quite as much cause this is good shit).

I was told it was free but i am having to pay for it. I didn't even ask for free weed. He litterally said, let's go smoke this shit somone gave it too me.

i have no idea what to do. he told me i shouldn't complain and i still have plenty of weed, and that technically we all smoked the weed. I am really pissed off and don't know what to do. I could try to get him to pay for the ammount that was taken away, but we don't know how much that was. I just really don't think i should have to pay for something that i was told was free, but i don't have anything i can do.

what would you do?
in the end it's not that much weed, i'm still getting an incredible ammount of good weed for 40$ but it just takes so long to get, i don't really care about not gettign as much as i payed for, but i do about having to wait another week or two once i run out.


frusterated


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sorry if i'm not making much sense. i've gotten like a total of 4 hours of sleep this week. (not because of the reason listed above )

 

.......What?

 

that is seiriously fucking odd but look at the bag and if you dont like the amount get your money back

 

i'm really just tired of waiting for this shit. he keeps delaying the time. i've only smoked twice in the last three weeks. Once alone and the other time with him. (both times MY weed). so this is like he's making me pay for both of us twice. (both times we did it two days in a row)

 

Your main concern should be getting the weed.

If you get the weed, minus what you smoked before, I would say not to sweat it.

You gotta pick and choose ya battles, feel me?

But if some bullshit goes down and you end up not getting any weed at all, then you might have to handle ya business. Interpret that how you wanna, my nigga.

Peace to The Brotherhood of Sun Possessors.

 

your friend sounds like a bitch.

 

yeah i didnt understand that, could you simplify it a little please?

 

there is one simple solution that i have followed for approximately a year now, that fixes this (unintelligible) situation and all others:

1) grow your own
2) smoke people out for free
3) only charge em if they take some home with them.

you will be amazed by how many people immediately become better friends with you (not including moochers) when friendship doesnt involve money, its a lot better.

 

Yeah, that post was barely coherent.

If he's trying to get you to pay for weed that you already smoked, thats shady as hell, and I wouldn't give him the money.


If he already told you it was free, then it should be free, unless he can prove that it cost him something.


Thats why it sucks to go through middlemen. I would just ask him to introduce you to his guy, so you can go directly to him.


Make sure you get it weighed out, too.

 

XD unless he has his own house, i don't think this is practical. but it's good advice nonethelss!

 

I didn't finish reading your post, but don't ask for help here every time you find yourself facing a petty personal problem. solve your own shit, motha fucka

 

o.0 what's the problem with him asking his questions here? i do find that making a thread for them is uncalled for, as he could just ask in the conversation thread, but it's definitely good to have some outside opinions for problems.

 

there are these forums for a reason man. the only stupid threads are ones that already exist 1/2 way down the first forum page, or consist of an idiotic though/question that is innapropriate/common knowledge.

also, calling people motha fuckas says very little about you intellectually, and as you might say, makes you look like a giant ass-tard.

 

Calling someone a motha fucka also doesn't negatively reflect his intellect as he did give the kid proper advice. If he can't solve a problem this small with his friends, how does he expect to make it in the world

 

I actually went through the same thing a little bit ago. I fronted my buddy enough money for a 1/2 ounce of weed that he was supposed to get it that night, well two weeks later he still didn't have it, so I called him on a friday night and said to meet me the next day with either the weed or the money b/c if he didnt have the weed i could go to someone else w/ the money to get some. So he said fine & sure enough later that night he texted me & said that he found some badass weed. So maybe do what I did and give him an ultimatium, like either give you the weed or the money back.

 

i would say don't worry about it. when you smoke with good friends, everything has a way of coming out about even.

 

i would say bang his girl..
problem solved.

 

haha thanks for all the replies....

i'm just gonna let this kind of shit go. i'm overly concerned with this kinda stuff...

1) ''bang his girl'' ok, im fucking 14
2) " grow ya own" again im 14...

3) "smoke people up for free"
well, he is the only person i ever smoke with. he gets money waay easier than i do. (spoiling parents). he isn't annoying or immature or anything of the sort, and i normally would just smoke him up for free whenever. we sorta agreed on doing that kinda stuff without saying so, but so far he hasn't pitched in.



overall im just going to be more generous... i mean hell, what difference does a few bucks mean anyways?

the el pretty much raped my question ( good way )

 

I don't know what saying "motha fucka" says about my intelligence, but your ability to detect sarcasm and insincerity speaks volumes about yours.

 

wheres the love?