How do you present a girlfriend with one of these "I want to see you fuck other guys" or "I want to fuck you with another guy at the same time" fantasies without being seen as creepy? It's not that I have a gal at the moment but I've always found it a problem. As a girl, how would you react to a fantasy like this?
You can easily lead into many different scenarios and ask about her having sex with other men while you watch, along with other fantasies. If she is put off by it, you can easily shrug it off , along with a lot of other things. If she seems interested by it, you can elaborate on the topic more.
My ex boyfriend just asked, I said yes. You can't go wrong if you just ask. The worst your gonna get is no.
My husband and I started out partner swapping with some friends. It wasn't long after our first experience that we discovered that he was really turned on by seeing me taken by other men. We've been having occassional MMF encounters ever since.
I've always wanted to swap partners but Im afraid it would ruin our relationship. But it sounds so hot.
yeah my boyfriend asked me about 3 months ago and since then we have had several. all MMF. even had 3 guys cum on my face in front of my boyfriend. that was HOT!
my fantasy too, my wife just says she wants no part of it and that sucks, cause I feel it should be seen as an oportunity for her, dont understand why she wont do it
When we were first married we did sex parties. I found that it got me way turned on watching her fuck other guys. That was a long time ago, and she says that she is not interested in that anymore, however, she likes sex a lot, and I know if we hooked up with someone she liked she could be talked into it again. <(^o^)>
First off, having sex with someone else is NOT cheating if both partners in the relationship willingly consent to it. This is one of my biggest fantasies also, but I'm single, just like the original poster. I can still give you some advice though. I have mentioned this fantasy to former girlfriends before. I asked them if they would be willing to have sex with another woman, or another man. I pointed out that I would not have to be there for her to have sex with another woman, but I would like to be able to watch her with a woman at some point in the future. Go figure, and so many guys typically demand to be part of the threesome. Anyway, one girlfriend did have sex with another woman while I was not there, and I was fine with that and very supportive of it. The next girlfriend said not to both men and women, and questioned why I was interested in that. Had I said she could have sex with a specific guy while I was not present, she mave have been interested in that. I wasn't as open-minded back then though. Other women that I've taken on a couple of dates, and eventually talked about fantasies with found it interesting, one in particular, but these other 3 women that I'm speaking of were all bisexual, or bicurious, and therefore more open-minded. My advice to you would be to use a technique of introducing things to a person called the "foot in the door" technique. Also, you must be sure the foundation of your relationship is strong and not questionable. To follow the "foot in the door" technique, you tell her about small and simple fanties first, and she must try those with you first. At this time, it would be nice to ask her about her fantasies (possibly ask her before mentioning your small ones), and do things sexually/romantically that she desires. Make some of her fantasies or ideas come true. Now, after you have done some small fantasies, and she has for you, introduce a sex toy. A nice dildo would be a good idea, as her enjoying something that looks like "another penis" would set the stage sliglthy for the big fantasy. Last, tell her about your fantasy of watching her with another guy. If she has already masturbated in fron of you with a dildo, your chances are very high that she will consider it. Obviously, the more open-minded she is, the more likely she will consider it. If she has more fantasies of her own, than average women, she will be more likely to try it. Is she flirtatious? That would be a slight indicator too. Another thing to consider is introducing the idea to her, after the dildo play has occured a few times, by her reading an erotic story of a woman having sex with another man with the consent of her husband. You can't make anyone do anything, but you can introduce the idea in such a way that the fantasy may become one of their own, even if it is for slightly different reasons than why it ultimately turns you on. Look up the "hot wife" scene on the net. www.ourhotwives.org would be a very good forum for you to visit and learn more before fucking up and presenting it to a woman in the wrong way. Sure, some women like the one that posted above will be adventurous and like the ideal from just suggesting it, but you greatly increase your chances by presenting it in due time, and in the right way.
For many men, bringing up a fantasy like that would mean taking a risk. The woman might think it's beyond bizarre and wonder what she's doing with anyone who would find it sexy. She might question her boyfriend's motives: Is he just doing this so he can sleep with other women? She might decide that no man who could stand to share her could possibly love her. Or she might feel as though her boyfriend is trying to turn her into a porn star, or worse, a prostitute. If the woman agrees, there are other risks. She might develop feelings for her one-night stand partner. Female sexuality is still a mystery to me, but I've always been under the impression that women, for obscure reasons of body or mind, link sex and love to a degree that would baffle most men. For a few months, I lived with a woman who insisted on sleeping with either of two long-term fuck-buddies whenever she felt like it. My reaction was mixed. Part of me was simply tolerant. I went along with it because I knew she needed it, which to my mind, proved that I was a selfless, saintly person. Another part felt slighted, or maybe tested. It sometimes seemed she was pushing my limits to see when, if ever, I'd say, "No more; you're mine!" (In the end, I said, "No more; you're on your own!) But beneath all that, there was a part that felt turned on. I can't explain those feelings, and I'm not at all sure I approve of them, or would ever want to give them the deciding vote in a tie of conscience. For those of you men who are willing to plunge into those murky waters, beware the dangers, and best of luck.
me and my ex boyfriend discussed this, talking about doing a trade off with MMF and him FFM. Im against FFM. I dont see the point of having 2 girls pleasuring a guy...its stupid and a bit annoying to see yourself trying to pleasure him when you look down and see another girl doing it. I guess I was a bit jealous when he mentioned it because it made my ego weak a little lol so I got mad and said pick 2 whores to do it with you... and I thought about MMF and its just as slutty IMO. plus I dont like anal.
