he doesnt love me?

Discussion in 'Paranoid?' started by maxinemurder, Sep 16, 2008.

  1. maxinemurder

    maxinemurder Guest

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    i love my boyfriend to death but maybe he doesnt love me? this gets me paranoid really :(
     
  2. What??

    What?? Member

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    What makes you think he doesnt love you?
     
  3. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    There’s nothing sadder than unrequited love :(


    Hotwater :)
     
  4. peacegrow

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    I'd say move on, you'll both be happier. (By move on, I mean break up in a positive way.)

    If you have some kind of paranoia problem, you'd be paranoid that other people didn't really love you too...or paranoid about other things.

    Since you are just paranoid about this, it's probably is true. Or maybe, more likely, he loves you, but is not happy in the relationship or able to express love to you.

    Letting go is sometimes the best thing to do, even though it's hard.
     
  5. snake_grass

    snake_grass Senior Member

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    can i love you?

    jk

    he probably doesnt have a problem with you a guy just likes to put his mind on something else probably

    "like were already working together now lets start moving forward"
     
  6. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Wow, talk about talking shit...
     
  7. woodsman

    woodsman Senior Member

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    Just ask him straight up if he loves you and believe what he says one way or the other.
     
  8. Zyprexo

    Zyprexo Member

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    Does he treat you with love? Does he say he loves you?
     
  9. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    it doesn't matter if he says he loves her. anybody can lie.

    maybe he doesn't love you. he isn't going to love you if you get all paranoid and stalkerish and all like "i love you do you love me still?" "do you still love me?" "why don't you love me anymore?". this is just gonna scare him away.

    if you are paranoid that he doesn't like you, break up with him. it will probably be better for you than having to worry about what hes feeling/thinking/doing all the time. if you start acting all paranoid, he'll break up with you. if you keep asking if he loves you, he'll think you're a creep. but you can't go on living with the way you feel because i know exactly how you feel.

    see what happens in like 2 weeks, if you're still paranoid then just end it. you'll feel alot better in a few weeks/months after you break up with him then being miserable with him for a while longer and then be psychotic after hes the one who breaks up with you.

    thats what i would do if i could back and do my life over.
     
  10. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    I agree with this - if you are paranoid about the person you love, then something is wrong. it is a common problem and almost always ends in: a huge surprise where you find out they have been going through a hard time with someshit
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    or breakup
     
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