Good advice and reference i can get about sex using condoms but not brith control.

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by joeycee, Oct 25, 2008.

  1. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    OK hey guys,

    im starting to use this section after i had my first sex scare which was nothing to worry about.

    so my story is. Im 17 years old and my girlfriend is 15. we have sex very rarely like once a month. ALL THE TIME I use a condom and change it frequently.(trojan-enz spermicidal condoms). I DO NOT CUM INSIDE HER WITH THE CONDOM ON. I always pull out w/ the condom on. I tend to feel safe all the time but when people tell me bad things like condoms dont work or they always break. i tend to get worried, exspecially after my scare but I dont worry about that as much.

    my question is is that a good thing to do and has anyone ever had a bad experience with condoms.
    she is not on birth control pill but maybe looking towards it. she dont know yet.

    SO MUCH HELP WOULD BE GREAT FROM YOU GUYS AND GOOD ADVICE AND
    COMMENTS.

    thank you guys,

    joe
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Condoms are great, as long as your putting it on properly you'll have no problems
     
  3. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    thanks now I know how to put it on properly.

    anything else guys??

    Is there anychance of pregnancy if i wear a condom and pull out before i cum.
    if there is a chance what is it.
     
  4. Jesus Jones

    Jesus Jones Member

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    Nope, that wont happen unless your banging her so hard the condom breaks!

    Cum inside with the condom on, thats what its for!
     
  5. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    i dont get why tht wouldn't work i mean i no theres pre-cum but i dont cum inside of her with the condom on. i pull out with it on and cum outside of her
     
  6. Jesus Jones

    Jesus Jones Member

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    The condom is there so you dont have to pull out.

    They're very reliable and rarely break!
     
  7. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    i know every time i used one i havnt had a problem. but i do pull out b/f i cum. it makes me feel safer.

    And the one time i bought a 3 pack of trojan enz spermicidal and the one condom had a hole in it. but i didnt use it or anything. i was messing around and filled it up with water and it had a small leak.

    But i do trust condoms i was just seeing if there is any safer way to use them.
     
  8. Jesus Jones

    Jesus Jones Member

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    You just gotta trust the condom! Its not gonna break and its more pleasureable to come inside the woman!

    Just relax dude.

    Have a smoke before u fuck or something!
     
  9. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    ha ha no smoke for me but
    ill fuck before i fuck.

    i trust the condom
     
  10. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I think you should get her on birth control if your worried. Then you should have to even worry about her. It is cheaper then condoms and then you can have better sex.
     
  11. joeycee

    joeycee Member

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    i no but shes young and she has to do it behind her mothers back.
     
  12. beautiful_freak

    beautiful_freak Member

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    I had condoms break when we did it really rough, and/or when I wasn't wet enough.
    so make sure everyone is totally excited or use lubrificant!!
     
  13. Advaya

    Advaya Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Condoms are very reliable if used correctly. However, did you mean that you test the condoms before you use them? I notice you said you filled it with water and found a leak in one. That is not good practice, condoms should not be filled with water and then used as it can make them break easier.

    Lubricant is a wonderful addiction to condoms; it will make sex more pleasurable as well as making the condom less likely to break.

    I've relied on condoms alone plenty of times, but even when using other forms of birth control we still use condoms just because it makes clean up so much easier.
     
  14. babyimtoxiic

    babyimtoxiic Member

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    condoms aren't 100% going to work obv.
    i've had the condom break before andd
    i've had drunk sex where the guy forgot
    to even wear one. soo it can def. be
    freaky, i'm not on birth control because
    i dont like the side effects, but thats my
    stupid choice..she should def. get on some.
     
  15. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    well sometimes you just have to do what u don't want to do but know is the right thing.

    i bet it does feel better for a man to cum inside the woman instead of pulling out all the time
     

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