ok i have a question,when i masturbate it lasts about 15min at the most, does this mean when i have sex thats how long ill last?? btw im 14
sex is a totally different feeling than masturbation. the first time you have sex, you may not even last but a few short minutes.
The first time you have sex the very excitement of the situation may even trigger you to climax in a matter of seconds. This doesn't necessarily mean that there is anything wrong with you, or that you will be prone to premature ejaculation - it's just something that happens to a lot of men their first time. As sophieclair has already stated, the stimulation from masturbation is not the same as with actual sex, which may seem illogical, as you may think that masturbation is just a case of providing an artificial vagina. That's what I used to think as well before I lost my virginity, and on losing it was amazed at the different sensations, and the fact that I could even reach a climax without resorting to the heavy beating associated with masturbation. Also, you should be aware that with masturbation you're strokes are not only a lot faster then they would be in actual sex, but you also have full control over the lateral squeezing pressure - something else that doesn't happen in actual sex. For both pleasure & educational purposes I would recommend you try the Fleshlight, as this is the nearest thing to genuine vaginal simulation I have ever experienced, and some retailers of it even list it as a sexual training device. I was dubious when I bought mine, but seeing as it was in the cheaper range of sex toys, I decided to go for it, and have never regretted it - in fact, I don't think I've ever seen any negative reports from anyone who's tried one.
WOW! When I was your age I could last less than ten minutes when masturbating. You're doing great! I lost my virginity close to my 15th birthday with my GF of a few months. I lasted for four strokes! By the 5th or 6th or 7th time I was lasting as long as I did when masturbating …. maybe 10min at the most. As time passed I was gradually able to last longer, but it wasn’t until I was in my early 30s that a lady taught me how to last as long as I wanted, and another few years to perfect the technique. Try this Kyle (for masturbation, not intercourse): masturbate standing up (less chance of losing control) …. as you get “close” slow down instead of speeding up …. and as it gets better, go slower …. and slower …. when you are within moments of orgasm-STOP! …. do not touch …. focus on all the sensations in your penis, but DO NOT TOUCH, just enjoy the feeling! ….. if you stand there long enough, your erection will start to go down … now start playing again …. repeat and repeat. Learn to get to the edge of orgasm and then back down without cumming. As you gain proficiency you’ll find that you can stay on that edge for longer and longer … and you’ll be well on the way to learning how to “ride the edge” as well as having much better skills to satisfy your sex partner. Have fun, practice frequently, and play safely!
SophieClair, if you start a thread like "How can I teach my man to last longer?" I'm sure that you'll get a ton of fun ideas to try! Have fun, teach your BF, stay careful! once virginity is lost it can never be regained
i can make myself cum in 5 mins and that has no effect on my length of sex i can go for awhile jus by having learned to control my feelings. i used to be a 2 pump chump lol but after following a lot of advice online i gradually became better and better. the shitty thing is that sometimes i dont cum during sex at all nemore and a girl can rarely make cum from giving me head. and old troll def has a great system there that i bet wrks so give it a try. but how long u masturbate i believe in no way reflects how long u last during intercourse
