My dick is average length and girth. Uncircumcised. I'm a virgin 16 year-old male Caucasian. For some reason, it takes me a really long time to orgasm from masturbation. Around 45 minutes minimum without porn, and 20 minimum with porn. Does this mean I'm just lucky and have really good endurance? Or is this a problem? What do you think? **EDIT** I don't think I was clear with my wording the first time. I can't orgasm in less than 20 minutes.
Masturbation endurance doesn't translate to sex endurance. I don't think taking that long to masturbate is necessarily a good thing.
Noted, Flying Man Dan. I should have known someone would say that. I've got something to think about now. But why do you think it isn't a good thing?
I suppose whether or not it is good is subjective. I usually prefer to get it out of the way as fast as possible, myself.
eh. you can take forever to jerk it, stick it in a tight pussy with no protection and you'll cum a lot quicker than you think.
If I it were me, Vire, I'd do some Google or library (if you have a university nearby) research to find out if this is a for real problem ... or something that will fix itself. I've seldom heard of a 16 y.o. that couldn't cum in 5 minutes or less. At 73 I still can if i want to ... but hardly ever want it to be quick and easy like that because I haven't had any raging hormones for a long time. I love to enjoy the trip as much or more than the destination. My only suggestion would be to not masturbate for a week or ten days ... longer if you can ... wait until you can't stand it any longer ... but a full 7 days minimum. Then masturbate without porn ... use only your mind and keep your focus on your penis, not on any fantasy ... just your penis and how it feels as you slowly stroke it. If you do try this, please let me know the outcum (so to speak). Have fun and play safely!
What it is that makes you climax is only about 25% physical stimulation. The remainder is from mental arousal & how much your semen your body needs to release (leave it for a few days & this amount increases). As you stated yourself, although you last 45 mins without porn, you only take 20 mins with it. This proves how important mental stimulation is. However, although porn can be an excellent catalyst for mental stimulation it can never equate to the real thing, and even if you were to last on average for an hour whilst masturbating, it wouldn't be uncommon on your first real life sexual encounter if you were to peak even before making actual contact with the vagina, let alone penetrate. On the other hand, your first encounter may be everything you want it to be. There are no hard & fast answers - only experience can tell. Also, don't be in too much of a hurry to lose your virginity just because of peer pressure. Far too many unwanted pregnancies are caused that way - plus those that are causing the peer pressure are often virgins themselves & just putting on the talk, afraid of being thought as a virgin, convinced that he is the only one in his peer group who is when, in fact, he is likely to be in the majority.
Alright, 4skin: I usually jack 4-5 times a week but I'll take your advice. PineMan: 1st Paragraph ---> Yes, I know. 2nd Paragraph ---> Yes, I know. 3rd Paragraph ---> Dude, I am so not a chump for peer pressure. I'm the last person in the world to do something to fit in. I'm fifty-times the maverick that John McCain is, to give you the picture. I honestly don't want to have sex until college, my high-school life is complicated enough without it.
I'm a noobie on Hip Forums ... is there a place where some not too serious political bullshit is appropriate? 'Cuz there is a comment two struggling to escape from my keyboard and into cyber space. Have fun, play safely, and think about Gov. Palin as president!
I can go for almost 3 hours, but then I just get bored and it becomes time to make it happen so that's usually how that ends.
