Experiences as a child

I was wondering if people around here have had sexual experience as children? I'm not talking about sexual relationships between minors n adults btw, I'm talking about sexual experience with other children in your childhood. To be frank I had quite a sexually active childhood. From the age of 3-5 I was participating in 'orgies' where we would touch and taste and smell each other. And around that time I also had a girlfriend (you know, that one girl/boy who you give daisies n who's hair you always had to pull, etc.) and when I visited her we had oral sex. Not in any hardcore sense, just pure exploring. A few years later I use to hang out with another girl who would tie me up (bondage was something I found interesting at the time) and touch me. Then another few years later I often had sexual play with a boy after school. Again it was just purely touch and oral. One day his mom caught us and boy was she not pleased. Fortunately for me at the time she didn't tell my mom but I found the whole moment so earthshatteringly embaressing that it took quite a while to recover. This is why I want to find people to talk to about this because I would like to know how, if you've experienced sexuality as a child, how it has affected you in your past experiences as an older person, sexual and just every-day life.
Now every now and again I venture this conversation with closer friends, which is obvious quite difficult because of the sensitive matter, but I would really luv to hear about other people's experience as children, cos I know for certain that I'm not the only one. I hope the anonimity of the internet might help me talk about this more clearly.
In many ways I feel that this was a very natural and almost necessary aspect of my sexual development (I'm 22 now), but as I've grown obviously I've met a lot of people who finds the concept of children and sexuality completely uncomparable. However I look back at those years in very fond ways, because it wasn't sexual in the way that I experience sexuality now. I would really like to talk to some people who've had similar occurances as me and would like to share them (PMing if you prefer not to talk about it on the board).

 

Lots of people had sexual expierences when they were younger, i.e. playing doctor. I remember making out with my 'boyfriend' in grade 4. I don't think that I went as far you did, but thats not to say that it never happened and I haven't forgetten due to a huge amount of drug use at one point. It's very very normal.

 

Yeah see that's pretty suprising to me as well, cos age and I suppose the regular use of substances has made my recollections of years past a bit vague but I can clearly remember my sexual experiences as a child. It seems such an integral part of the journey I went on throughout my childhood.
Did you have any experiences with girls as well? I find most people who I've spoken to about this (not that many) who have admitted they had sexual experiences as a child were fairly heterosexual, but then again maybe cross-gender playing is too much of a touchy subject for people.
It's pretty strange actually because I pretty much entirely grasped the concept of sex and sexuality (being turned on, fantasising, etc.) by the time I was 8 but it was only when I turned 11 (catching the page 3 girl in some tabloid at home) that the lightblup went 'PING' above my head and I realised that I really really found naked chicks pretty damn neat. I can't imagine at all what was 'missing' or 'not connected' before that....boy and girls seemed equally sexually attractive to me.

 

Oh yeah I was making out with girls too. I just think that alot of people don't want to talk about it because they were ashamed.

 

I made out with a few of the guys in the neighborhood. There weren't very many girls and they just didn't hang out with us. I was brought up as a child of the 60's and 70's. We had to keep it well hiden at the time just because thats what you did. I'm not ashamed of it but unless I know you real good (other then the net) I doubt that I would talk about it. I don't think it was a bad thing and as a matter of fact thinking about what happened then has my motor started to do it some more now but I have a wife that wouldn't see the humor in it. I haven't even ever told her about my childhood sexual experances and plan on leaving it that way. Ask me all you want PM or on here it doesn't matter as I don't think anybody that I know gets on here and if they do maybe we wil be able to get together some time.

 

We had peep shows at a younger age, maybe 4 or 5. It was always my older sister, me, our female neighbor who was my age, and our male neighbor who was a year older. We would just sit in his club house and show our private parts. There was no touching involved though.

But I did start masturbating to an orgasm at about second or third grade. The thought of a male controlling a woman was very sexy to me, although I didn't understand any of it at all. I would fantasize about "rape" in a sense, although I did not even know what sex or rape actually was (Only what I had seen in movies and on TV... two people rolling around with each other). A therapist I saw a few years ago said this was probably a way for me to deal with the lack of a dominant male figure in our household (my father died when I was 6 months old, so it was just me mom and sis).

Anyways, I did this masturbating shamefully for many many years. Usually a few times a week, although there would be months when I would do it a few times a day. I truly and honestly thought I was a freak and was the only person who did this to themselves. I guess I thought I had made up masturbating. I tried to "quit" several times and would be so upset with myself would I would start doing it again. It wasn't until sex ed in the seventh grade that I found out I was "normal," and that every person masturbates. Although I don't know how "normal" it is for 8 year old girls to have orgasms.

How has this effected me? I don't really know. I still fantasize about rape, which is unfortunate I think. I do not think the actual act of rape is sexy but it is something that has plagued me since my childhood. In my lifetime I have had upwards of a thousand orgasms, and very few of those have been achieved without me fantasizing about force and male dominance of some sort. Every time I hear a story about a female I know being raped or abused I feel extremely guilty.

This was longer than intended, but an interesting question, so I thought I would answer thoroughly.

 

I really don't think that there's anything wrong about fantasising about anything - I'm very staunch in this belief. What goes on in your head is for you to enjoy, no one's got that on you. Especially if these fantasies started at a young age because they appeared naturally and so are just your innocent mind at work.

Besides I think, from what I've heard chatting to female friends, that women are naturally inclined to fantasise about rape, and I can definitely see appeal although I personally was never ino that (but I do think I'm in the minority).

So yeah, don't worry dudette....it's all fun n games at the end of the day, what turns you on turns you on and there is absolutely no reason whatsoever in the entire universe why you should feel guilty about what goes on in your head.

The fantasies I had as a child were more subtle than that. I often fantasised about children being treated as a 'toy' by adults. Not in any way rape, but I suppose as a body that an adult figure could enjoy sexually without any restraint. As I aged, I guess about the age of 8-9, I started developing fantasies about being somewhere dark and deep (sometimes in a sewer of some sort, other times just a plain dark void) where I could explore a child or adult counterpart sexually (at this time this mostly involved men curiously).

Again, it was only about 11 that I started feeling that I was wholeheartedly into girls and really felt what it was I wanted to do with them. It was also about that time that I stopped fantasising about adults and started fantasising about girls my own age. I guess as my puberty started the childish desire for exploring and playing turned into a more mature awareness that I wanted to have sex with girls erotically and romantically.

 

Ive been making love to the boys sence forever! its naturel and we both feel good

 

omg, the whole first and 2nd paragraph apply to me to! didnt grow up with a father, lived with mom and sister, and thought that i was the only one who did this. until like, 5th grade. lol

 

I can't really remember any sexual experiences from my childhood, probably because I spent most of it doing nothing but watch television.

However, I live in a tribe with lots of little kids, including my daughter, and I can say from my experiences with them that all children are very sexual. They play with their genitals from the moment they can move their hands enough, and they get very interested in each others bits.

It's a major topic of our child care councils. We are mostly of the opinion that it's natural and fine and although often we end up "re-directing them" when we find it, I (and I think others too) make an effort not to show our conditioned reactions and not install the same absurd taboos that I don't even like in myself.

It's normal and natural, humans are sexual creatures.

Love and Light,
Joshua

 

I never had anything like that, although I did go to Diesel school with a guy who said he lost his viginity at age 9.

 

When I was about 5 or so my older cousin (who was maybe 11?) would start touching and kissing me when we laid down to go to bed. We performed oral on each other and I really enjoyed it, but then my mother caught us and I haven't seen her since.
As for long term effects, I suppose that's why I found myself attracted to other girls long before I ever thought about boys, and why I enjoy oral sex so much.

 

Great subject Pikey, I'd love to keep this post alive.
I grew up second oldest in a family with 4 sisters. Some of my very early memories are of my older sister (by less than a year) and her friend laying side by side in the basement with their summer shorts around their ankles, making me kiss them on their bald pussies!
I was obviously a curiosity, being the only male in the household (father was never there) and at an early age, relished the attention.
After the basement fun, I was a bit obsessed with the female form (have not grown out of that!) and would try to catch my sisters naked whenever I could. Believe me, they were probably more curious than I was and would instigate touching sessions all the time. They would sometimes talk me into wearing their clothes, which was so deliciously naughty.
When I was probably 10 or so, some neighbor brothers started to join in the fun. They were the same age as me, but quite a bit more developed. I though something was wrong with me, looking at their huge (for 10 years old) cocks compared to mine. No one ever really penetrated anyone, just a lot of rubbing and kissing, etc...It's really too bad that we seldom can capture that free feeling of total curiosity and sexual tension.

 

well when i was in the third grade i touched my "boyfriend's" penis and he said it felt good and it got a bit hard i remember giving him oral it was kind of funny because i was like 3 feet tall jaja and i remember in the first grade i kissed a boy i liked and touched his penis but he had pants on so i only touched it lightly my childhood was fun

 

My ex also had a great deal of sexual experiences. She masturbated since the age of 6 and taught her cousin and a neighboring friend. The three camped out once in a garden and took it in turns to be tied together and 'raped' (as in forced to have sex - keep in mind that was only a game). She also told me that her and her cousin had 'sex' a great deal many times on their own till about the age of 9 I think (they would press each other's crotch together). Another curious story is how her and several kids from kindergarden would jump into a ditch together and pretend they were wolves. Apparently this was sexually charged although nothing physically arousing happened.

 

I don't think my 'observations, experiments, or taste testing' from the age of five on had much influence on my later sex life. They really were little friends sharing each others bodies for fun and learning, more than sex. Fortunately no-one ever taught me the body and its feelings were 'dirty,' either in feelings or appearance, let alone the doing of things. All I know is that when little jon started responding to stimulation, I knew where to go to get attention. From 15 on I was getting compliments about being so calm about sex. You know, not acting nervous or jumpy. I'm also a lot more open to scents and hair and don't require a shower before jumping into bed. Down and dirty may be a result of early familiarization, but it primarily led to being extremely open about sex and such. I wonder if I'm making sense? Oh well, I tried.

 

I was doing things like this from the age of 4 till about 8 with a friend. Touching each other, playing doctor. When we got to the age of 15 we started hands jobs and all that. She was always a bit crazy. We;re now both in our 20s and shes pregnant. Im in college and enjoying life!

 

When I was 2-5 years old, my best friend was a girl, so we were often curious about each other's bodies. I remember one time she wanted to hold my penis when I had to pee because it looked like fun to aim. Not really sexual, but there was a lot of exploration and touching.

 

when i was 11 years old..me and a friend of mine who my age used to have some fun with my elder sister(she was 13 at that time).i used to invite him to my home and my sis would join us in my room at night.she became our sex teacher.we both kissed my sister on lips,pussy,breasts,ass and everywhere and she made us lick her feet(i guess i developed foot fetish since then).then my sis would give bj to our mini-erections.those were some wonderful days and it had to stop when i was 13 and my friend didnt keep it a secret.i was so ashamed and my sis become so mad at it that we had to abandon it.even now when i am 23..i dry-hump my sis sometimes when she comes to meet me.

 

I guess mine started when I was attracted to upskirts ever since I was 8. I french-kissed my friend in school once (when nobody was watching). And then we did it again at a swimming pool. I remember running my hand all over her body and touching her butt.

Then when I was 11 I had my second gf. Went over to her house one weekend evening and watched Titanic together. We were the only ones at home and we got turned on by the love scenes in the movie. We started stripping and made out. We did have sex - I tried to put my "you know what" into "you know where" but I guess I was too young to cum.

Two years later, I went over to a friend's house for a school assignment and she seduced me. She gave me my first ever bj and I came for the first time in my life in her mouth. She swallowed it all and we were about to have sex until we heard that her brother just came back home.

A year later, I finally had sex with my 15 yo gf. Penetration + ejaculation. And the rest is history.