I can't cum thinking of the woman I'm with

Not being attracted to men is a serious stumbling block...
Maybe ease yourself into it by being very close friends with butch men.
I'm only half kidding here.

 

that won't work. my mom has been trying to be attracted to women for YEARS. never happened. so she's stuck hating men and only having females to drink and party with.

 

Then I think he might be screwed (pardon the pun).

 

I am.

It's not as though I've ever fantasized about men or reached orgasm thinking of men.

The idea itself disgusts me-

 

yeah, man, i think you should just not have sex for a while. don't pick up any chicks, and wait it out. take a break!

 

I'm trying to learn.

But after about 3 months usually I become a little deranged and psychotic-

 

I'm only trying to help.

 

yeah. when i was celibate for three months, i developed a maddening crush on david schwimmer.

 

Holy shit!

I hope I never get that bad.

 

:cheers2: it was a tad embarassing.

 

Hmm, Praxis.
Maybe partly u are focused too much on "the performance".
I think maybe u just feel u've had enough of girls who are ok but dont blow your mind too?Sort of "outgrown fun sex"?

I used to see a gorgeous girl and think "yeah I'm gonna get me some of this..."And afterwards I'd be buzzing -but looking for another "conquest"..

But eventually meaningless and terrific sex with another gorgeous girl got pretty meaningless for me.And I was sort of shellshocked..I couldnt understand it.

Its like my whole psychology had to rewire.
It can take time.Good luck!

 

Don't forget that foreplay is not just for women.

Foreplay before fellatio is a better experience than fellatio as foreplay.

 

Are you not having enjoyable sex?

 

I've had some of my most technically amazing sex with Frenchie- my last partner. Yet I chose to end it recently.

My worst sex- technically, was with a woman I had strong feelings for- Cara. Technically, the sex was horrible (emotional insecurity, no experimentation or adventure, faulty communication) and yet she's the only woman with whom I've had multiple orgasms. But eventually she burnt me.

These days it feels I have no use for women other than possibly, sex workers. I'm just turned off to women in general. It seems impossible that I woman could satisfy me emotionally.

I've speculated about homosexuality, but I doubt it. I'm not asexual either. Women have always satisfied me sexually. But never- emotionally.

 

These themes dont look very unusual.I've known a few people with a variant of this in some way or other..

Have u thought that you're apprehensive about being blown out?
And also struggle to find girls that really hit the spot ( personality wise) for you?

I think its a *lot* harder for guys to find someone they wanna settle down with.
And can be *very* draining.Anyways , long topic.Am I right>?