He doesnt have sex with me!

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Huh, interesting. When you were doing it, were you always doing it the same way, in the same place, as a sort of routine? Maybe he's getting bored and you need to change it up a little. Also, he could be gay. Are you hot?

 

Why would you say he is gay? Jeez can't a guy just be tired and not have sex. Does he work long hours at his job? If he is doing all that and meets parents and stuff. You shouldn't be worrying about sex.

Tiffany

 

I understand wanting sex but if the guy says he is tired then perhaps he is tired. Why don't you talk to him about maybe setting aside a day just to make love and see what he says? Some men feel that once a relationship has settled they do not need sex all the time. And again some just have low libidos.

 

ya i think something may be wrong... only been together a month and he doesnt want sex??? seems pretty odd. but you never know could just not like sex haha

 

I disagree, if in the early stages the sex is already lacking it's likely it won't get much better...
talk to him about it honestly and openly, if nothing changes perhaps you'll have re-evaluate the relationship.

 

maybe sex just isnt that important to him, not all men are crazy horny all the time.

 

Well, sometimes when I'm tired I don't think I feel like having sex, and I won't initiate. But as soon as my gf starts jumping me, I get un-tired real quick.

So the question is - are you trying to initiate or are you just asking him and he's saying he's tired and you leave it at that? Sometimes, you just gotta take charge and be a man.

 

I never thought of it like that, but I still don't think that means he is gay. Might just not have a high sex drive, some guys don't.


Tiffany

 

The problem relies on the OP, shes a shit shag, end of.

 

Shit shag? LOL

 

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Your edgy reply hints you are a shit shag.
And im not a virgin, i have sex every day at least once (which is more than what you are getting ), unless my gf is on her period, then its just blowjobs every night.

 

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guys dont just get tired and not want sex, we always want sex, unless the chick is disgusting beyond all reason

 

No that is YOU. All guys do not want sex all the time.

 

Lots of guys don't want to have sex all the time. They get tired too.

 

Yep

 

I wish guys didn't get tired. That would rock

 

been slow in my dept. So Im going to say "who cares!"