... most of people say they want to finally find the right partner, but.. DID ANYONE EVER WANT TO BE SINGLE? - even if satisfied in a current relationship..
no, but after 3 relationships (each an average of a year long) - i realised i wasn't cut out for relationships at that time in my life. what i needed was to gain a sense independence. find myself before looking for someone else. relationships made me emotionally dependant on the girl i was with and there was no way a relationship could function when i was how i was.
yes. i just cant see myself with a man. i love being single. I see all the relationship drama and I have never been happier. I dig the whole being alone thing. If I ever have a kid I want to do it by myself too.
Nope, far from alone, nothing wrong with it for the most part. Be careful thou, it can bite you in the Ass via. regret. Met the coolest Woman (imo) ever back while I was kinda locked in solo-mode, I mean we had very similar interests and tastes in a perfectly synergistic manner so to speak. Dumb ass me, well I decided it would be better to try and keep such a great friendship secure and not risk it by crossing the borders of intamacy. Well let's just say it didn't work out like I had planned it to. 13 years later and I still find myself using her as a sort of benchmark for other women I meet, again just shooting myself in the foot. So just keep in mind that even thou "you might not be in the right headspace for it", relationships arent anything like simply going out and buying a car for the sake of meeting your needs, they're about two people working together as a team in life thru the good shit and the bad. I guess what I'm saying is if you meet someone and you click like that with them, you darn well better give it a shot or you may just never know. And even if you try and things dont go well, at least you know then and can simply go back to being single. Life is a chance, ya' may as well roll the dice. :cheers2:
no ive found my boyfriend i never want to be single again. but before him i was happiest when i was single, no commitments, no hassle, no relationship dramas etc. it was great! now i wouldnt change all of that for anything. what a sap i have become.
I'll like being single till I meet the right person. If that person never turns up I won't lose any sleep.
I am single & plan on staying that way! Oh don't get me wrong~I have male friends at work, who can crack me up sometimes...but I like doing my own thing on my own time at my own pace & all by myself.
