girls, do u actually enjoy sex, or oral sex better?

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  1. Barefoot_lover69x

    Barefoot_lover69x Member

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    I was just wondering, during normal sex, do u actually feel pleasure? Or is it only a bit, and u can only get the most pleasure thru oral sex and other stuff? I'm kinda of a noob, so i wanna know. Sry if i sound childish. Thanks in advance =D
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I personally don't like oral sex done on me. I find it boring. I perfer real sex.
     
  3. jaigurudeva~

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    i like lots of foreplay, after i get pretty hot, very teasing oral, and then sex, and then oral again......but that's just me..

    Talk to your girl and see what she's into..... that in itself could help stoke the fire
     
  4. underthesun

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    i think oral sex is a turn-on but as far as physical pleasure goes, regular sex is infinitely better. i rarely cum from oral... i just think it's hot.
     
  5. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

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    Do you think this will be the case(boring, I mean) regardless of his/her skill at performing oral? I'm with ya as far as preferring actual sex.
     
  6. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Yeah, I've had more then 5 partners in oral , it's always been boring.
     
  7. misselissajayne

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    i got more pleasure through intercourse than oral sex.
    oral sex is great as forplay [my bf can make me cum he is awesome]
    but sex is much pleaserable and if there is a connection thats good to.
     
  8. misselissajayne

    misselissajayne Member

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    i think the best oral you could get is from a girl [if your a girl]
     
  9. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

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    That's not many oral partners and I think someone will come along and change your mind one day. I can't imagine someone doing it right and you not enjoying it. Not to say it's impossible but...
     
  10. ShanaBanana

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    I actually am not a big fan or oral on me, but I love to give oral. I can assure you that I have had plenty of experience with receiving it, from both male and female partners. It's just not my thing. It feels good, I'm not arguing that point, I just like regular sex better. I would not be satisfied with just oral sex and no penetration.
    I think actual sex is much better. It gives a deeper feeling of connection with your partner.
    Truth be told, the best sex is a little bit of everything, foreplay, physical connection, emotional connection and orgasm.
     
  11. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    It completely depends on the chemistry of the moment. There are times that I am really bored while oral sex is performed on me. There are times I am bored with sex.

    It depends on my mood, my attitude, our relationship, chemistry. All of that.

    I'm with banana girl....I love to give it. I can melt right into it and forget where he ends and I begin.
     
  12. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

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    I started out thinking how odd it was that some of you seem to care less about recieving oral sex but are happy to give it. Then I realized that I'm pretty much the same way, I was just stuck on women being bored with it. Stuff of nightmares for me.
     
  13. Americunt

    Americunt Corporate Hack

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    I really enjoy oral (both giving and receiving). I need a lot of clitoral stimulation to cum, but I also really enjoy the feelings of intercourse, so I usually just find a way to stimulate myself while having sex. If I could get oral AND have sex at the same time....phew. That would be heaven.
     
  14. washable

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    I enjoy sex better than having oral done on me (although I am learning to like it) although I love to give it to him.. seeing him pleased is more important to me... I don't think about what I need I guess... I love sex though.. ass slapping tumbling rough...yummy
     
  15. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    i prefer sex too. im not the biggest fan of oral, its ok and a good starter but i cant cum from oral. only sex. sex sex and sex! :)
     
  16. fruit bat

    fruit bat All dumplings are real.

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    I get more physical pleasure out of oral sex, but more emotional pleasure from actual sex...

    It depends on the guy, too...
     
  17. veroness

    veroness There's only one :)

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    i like oral and playing around better than sex. i enjoy sex more when i we both enjoy it and when its romantic
     
  18. Keva

    Keva Member

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    I prefer oral sex,i enjoy regular sex to,but it's not as earth shattering as oral.
     
  19. KatelynPaige

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    ^^^^^

    I personally like oral sex more for pleasure, but I also think intercourse is more fun. ;D
    They're both pleasurable for me. ;]
     
  20. GentleBen

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    Whats a chach ?
     

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