my boyfriend doesn't want to eat me out

I have a boyfriend for almost a year and I really love him, our relationship is perfect but there is one thing bothering me more and more. He says he doesn't like to eat pussy and when I ask him for the reason, he says there is no reason, that he just doesn't enjoy it and that's it. I've had several sex partners before and none of them had problems with it. I don't know what to do, I cannot leave him, but I cannot live without oral sex neither, because I love it even more than sex itself. And of course, I don't want to force him into doing it, because it would make no sense. I cannot understand why he wouldn't do it?! He says he loves me and he is attracted to me, but I am not so sure anymore. I just think this is not normal because of all the guys I know, everyone just loves doing it so I'm already very frustrated about it! Otherwise, he went down on me about 5x in a year. I'm devastated! It's not just I'm not satisfied, what frustrates me even more is the fact that my own boyfriend is (obvioulsy) disgusted with the part of my body he should be crazy about! What should I do??? I cannot imagine going on like this, so should I leave him or is it worth trying anyway?

 

dump him.

 

Maybe youre really hairy down there?

If u really cant live without it, find another guy !

 

God no, I'm not hairy. I take care for my "thing" very well so this is absolutely not an issue. Like I said, I haven't had any problems with other guys before. I guess he's just a weirdo. :banghead: I should have left him before I fell in love with him. :banghead:

 

Someone truly in love probably would not have said this.

 

^^ I DO love him, but I can't go on like this. Sex is very important to me and so is the feeling that my boyfriend is crazy about me and loves every piece of my body. Which I don't get from him and that is killing me! And just because I love him so much, it is so difficult to leave him. I keep asking myself, is that reason strong enough to do so?

 

Stop sucking his dick until he goes down on you. Make sex completely seem like a chore for you until he gives in. That means plain missionary and end it. And tell him you are not doing anything until he does the deed

 

Leave him. Being in love sometimes means doing what you don't like.

 

He says he doesn't like to eat pussy and when I ask him for the reason, he says there is no reason, that he just doesn't enjoy it and that's it.

Even if he doesn't love it he should care about your pleasure enough to do it more than 5x in a year.


Is there anything he really loves that you don't like?Perhaps you could offer to do it with being eaten out in return.

Personally I feel the best course of action would be to leave him.

 

He doesn't like eating pussy. (Nothing personal, yours is as attractive to him as anyone else's.)

He is unwilling to put aside his likes/dislikes to please you.

You have a decision to make.
But he's not going to change.

I think that his unwillingness to put aside his preferences is more telling than what those preferences are.

 

I agree

Tiffany

 

You aren't allowed to advertise your site on the HF, consider yourself reported for spamming.

 

I wasn't talking about the sex. Why would you wish you'd have left someone you love before you fell in love with them? I don't know, I see love as a committment, through bad and good times. If you're wishing you hadn't fallen in love with them then maybe you're not as committed and thus not as in love as you think.

my two cents.

 

Some guys are just not into it, get over yourself.

Do all woman enjoy sucking cock? No.

If you REALLY are that selfish and can not imagine yourself dealing with it then move on. If that's the biggest problem you have you don't really have a problem... You shouldn't act like he's an asshole because he doesn't like eating pussy...

 

I love how when it's a man with a problem like this, like if the girl won't go down on the dude then everyone's like "respect her feelings, if she doesn't like it then she doesn't like it." But when it's the woman everyone's all "LEAVE HIM!"

 

^ Actually I disagree, I think that if a girl doesn't like sucking cock and they guy cares about it that much then the guy should leave her.

 

Agreed again

Tiffany

 

Seconded.

 

id say leave him
If he cant eat your pussy and supposedly he loves you back
thats odd

 

i dont know what to do honestly. maybe you both can try something new that you would like equally the same. I dont think being with someone is all about sex even though i love i, and never really get enough, lol. There has to be something else you enjoy besides having him go down on you.

plus him doing it 5 times a year when you know he doesnt like it at all, thats saying something, he does it to you eventhough he doesnt like it. hes making you happy to some extent. i think he loves you and vise versa, just dont get so caught up on that.