What do you hate about being in love?

is there anything you hate about love? or being in it?

 

it sucks when u cant see them...or when u get jealious so easily...it hurts...

 

or if they don't necessarily return the feelings right away. Usually it's the guy who says they love me first (in my oh so many relationships before this one, ie 2) but this time around, I fell first.

 

saying or doing something impulsively and then finding the other person wasn't as enthused as you; petty arguments about stupid things; seeing the other person down; arguments that involve yelling; feeling regret about something; missing the other person (something major). Other than that, most of the time its always good.

 

the arguments that go along with the whole relationship thing and being yelled at-I hate that

 

date a mute..........problem solved

 

The fact that it rarely works out.

 

nah men need to stop yelling how would you like someone stronger than you with a deeper voice yelling at you? Guys never think about it and than get all offended when suddenly your afraid of them.

 

how could anyone yell at a beautiful thing like you..............

 

The bad points of being in love:
1. missing them, but its kinda part of the fun
2. having grades suffer b/c you're spending too much time with them
3. spending lots of money. Doesn't neccesarily have to be, but I tend to eat out more when I'm dating someone
4. Getting my heart broken
5 breaking hearts

 

ahhh thanks

 

What I hate about being in love is that the deeper in love I get, the more I worry about possibly losing the girl, because hey, I love her so much! It's circular, and it's difficult to deal with.

-Jeffrey

 

No, I can't say I have anything I hate about it. It's all good here.

But, back before my hubby and I were married, I felt a lot of the same emotions of many of you with the missing part and the jealousy. My hubby used to be a bassist in a hard rock band and I hated the attention he got. I always felt so insecure, even though he himself never gave me any reason to.

Oh, back when my hubby and I were just living together and not married yet, we went out one night to the store and I had been drinking a lot. Why the heck we decided to go out when I was so very intoxicated was beyond me, but I'm positive it was my idea. LOL While I was in my favorite isle, the shampoo isle, (gotta love the hair stuff!) my sister, who had accompanied us, says "who's he talking to?" Well, I tore out of that isle and started screaming obscenties and threatening to kick these girls' asses. There were two of them. They insisted that they were both happily married with kids, that they all had just gone to school together, that's all. Well, that didn't stop me. I kept on. They finally just took their carts and left.

Later on, once more sober, I felt like a COMPLETE idiot. I was so embarassed. But that's nothing. Imagine my embarassment when three years later, one of the girls' husbands started working with my husband. The two of them had become buddies, so we were invited to their son's birthday party (we had our first son by that time as well) OMG, I almost didn't go to the party, I was afraid she'd remember how I acted and I was so humiliated over that, but she was super-nice. My hubby said she was probably afraid I'd freak out again and go pyscho on her or something. Ouch. Anyway, she and I are cool, I've never brought it up, and neither has she, and we get along great.

But I'm nothing like that now thank God. I grew up. A lot. LOL

Peace.

 

Something i hate hmm when you have a hard time saying no to them cuz you want to make them happy, not talking about sex or anything lol just stuff in general. And I hate when you don't talk to them all night when they said they would call you I always get scared something happend to them.

 

I hate a lot of shit about love... the heartbreak isnt really worth it for me.

 

hmmm what I hate about being in love..well since I have never been in love I dont know haha, j/k
Probably the spending of too much time together...I dont know, I really dont find anything bad about being in love though, ahaha, I dont know

 

jelousy
feeling vulnerable
missing the other person
breaking up
getting over it

i think being in love is pretty painful. better avoid it!