a person

Have you ever known a person who ... just everything about him rubs you the wrong way? I mean like, the way they speak, the opinions they voice, the way their voice sounds, the things they like, everything? This probably sounds really harsh. I generally love hearing different views/experiences from my own. But this is different somehow.

I've experienced this once. From the first time I had contact with this person, this bad feeling washed over me before he even opened his mouth. I'm not sure how to explain that. After he opened his mouth, the feeling got worse

Anybody experience this?

 

yes.

 

This is called Dissonance.

It's on a vibratory level.

 

to zen -
what d'you think it is?
and why?

to stalk -
tell me more.

 

bad energy?

 

Well, in my life I have broken every single thing down to a frequency.

It's my personal philosophy that this entire existence is a symphony.

When You don't get along with someone, it's inevitable...

it's a bad note in a scale..

Your life is all about seeking out harmony, conducting it, performing it...

You can't harmonize with disonance... (Unless you're a jazz musician )

 

I can think of one dude in recent memory that was pretty close to as opposite to me as I can imagine, except that I'm super average in a lot of stuff. I buy regular clothes, I listen to regular music, I cut my hair in a regular way, etc etc. And in those particular things I shared a thing or two in common with that dude. But when it came down to how we thought about life we were very different people and it made me dislike him and come into conflict with him on a regular basis. almost to the point of physical confrontations.

So I think yes, I know what you're experiencing. It is unfortunate, but paradoxically fortunate that such conflicting personalities exist in the world.

 

Yes, and I just don't associate with them. I also tend to find myself manipulating my friends into shunning that person, yet I do not believe that I do it purposefully.

 

The person probably killed you in a past life, then raped your family and ate your dog. Then this person you don't like probably made most of the surrounding medeival village into eunuchs for the creation of a sex slave trade. Your better off stabbing him in the ball sack to balance out his karma then dealing with his vibe,, duh.

 

stalk - that's the coolest thing I've ever heard.

for real. I'm a horn player .. been playing in orchestra since high school, in regular wind groups before that.

that just opened some kind of door in my head. lots of things you say seem to do that.

 

stalk said it way better than anything i could have. but yeah... i experience the same vibrational flow between people, objects, thoughts in my head, lol... everything is a frequency, and you just have to find the ones that come in clearest for you. like radio stations in the car when you're traveling. lol, maybe this guy is like... a country station that's full of static or whatever.... not inherently BAD, just not at all your taste. grates on your nerves, and so you just switch to another station.

 

I am glad it resonated with you two.
It makes so much sense when you look at the universe as a musician.

 

I have definitely felt this sort of thing in the past but in the last few years I haven't come across anyone like that, I don't know if its luck or that my personality has changed. I think I've really had to tone down my ideas about people because i'm such an angry, idealistic person. If I actually still took my own judgments seriously I would feel like picking up a knife and killing every person I knew. Too much torment.

In short, I feel this way about people who are any of the following: Prudish, racist, egotistical, vain, ignorant, cruel, materialistic, judgmental...considering some of the lighter ones in there, thats a hell of a lot of people. So, to save myself hassle, I generally just switch off and let people be people, unless they are highly intelligent and should know better.

 

My home town is full of them, people talking about what a great town it will be once the paper mill is gone.

 

I was just thinking how that post was rather mind blowing, then you stated my thoughts about it perfectly.

That was strange

 

Yes. It may be the fact that I find it next to impossible to befriend a female in real life. It may be the fact that my every nerve is grated. Who knows?

 

This guy is my old boyfriend's good friend. They have not gotten along as well at all since I came into the picture. I think I do the same thing.

 

My current race/gender/ in the mass media professor is that exact person to me.

Who exactly is this person to you?

 

I think you subconsciously like him.

 

my older sister is with an old man who is disgusting. i can't stand him.