Girls I need your help. Sex while mensturating

I'm having more issues with the girl I've been seeing and I'm pretty damn close to calling this relationship off. She is very attractive, which is the only reason I haven't already, but in bed, she leaves a lot to be desired. See "My gf bit my dick" for an example.. but that's really just the tip *ahem* of the problem. I'd really like to get to the bottom of this issue before I give her the shaft. (OK, OK I can't help myself.)

So here's the question: while you're on your period, is the thought of sex repulsive to you? And if you don't feel like having sex, would you still be willing to help your man get off either by hand or by mouth? I feel like she just.. doesn't give a shit about my physical needs, to be frank. I feel like this even when she's NOT on her period, but now that she is, it's worse.

 

I love sex when I'm on the rag. As long as I don't have bad cramps which tend to make me feel a bit sick.

 

I get extra horny around that time, so any attention would be well welcomed. Sure it isn't the most clean, but atleast you won't have to use lube.


Tiffany

 

ok if I don't hurt or feel like shit i have no problem...but if I don't expect him to get me off when Im on the rag I don't expect to have to get him off. If a guy had any idea what serious cramps felt like they wouldnt be assholes.

 

Not all women will have sex on their period. It can be very painful, and messy. You shouldn't be upset with her if she says no.

If a woman says no, you should accept that as the final answer. She shouldn't be expected to service your member, or satisfy you another way. It's only a few days, a week, tops. You can surely make it without sex for that long. Masterbation is always possible.


In any relationship, you will not always want sex at the same time. You can't expect to get it every time you want it.

The final part of your quote, "I feel like she just doesn't give a shit about my physical needs" - I bet that this goes both ways. Not giving her time off for her period is insensitive and not fair to her. She's a person, not a sex toy.

Disclaimer: These are my personal opinion. I'm not trying to flame the forum, just offer a different perspective on the topic.

 

Yeah and I appreciate your point of view Shana - I may be a horny dog but I can handle a little bit of maturity. When we woke up this morning we had sex anyway, and it was a great fun bloody mess lol.

My concern is more of an overall "I tend to want it a little more often than she does" thing. As I mentioned it's not JUST on her period - but it seemed like she was using that as an excuse and I genuinely wanted to know how other ladies felt about this.

 

I'll admit if I'm not feeling it when I'm around that time of the month I use it as a excuse. I tend to be pretty grumpy are that time though

 

Yeah I agree

 

i hear sex while menstruating can actually help cramps. i don't really get cramps anymore, but i want sex even on my rag... my boyfriend just uses a condom to keep things slightly cleaner.

 

That's a big lie. I hump everything right before and when I'm spurting.

Like, everything. People, couches, houseplants... It's gotten me in a fair bit of trouble.

 

It is a crazy mess but I like it too... although I am super horny I don't get off... I get too worried about the damn mess everywhere... not all guys on the same account can handle all the mess.... I am not one to do it at the "beginning" of the cycle but at the end (IE... this damn week) I am more than willing to have some fun if he is up to it
However I still enjoy getting him off.... hmmm... here I am sitting here and he is in my bed sound asleep... be right back
LOL