So for reasons related to me being unhappy with myself as a result of some one night stands, I opted to just give women a break over the last year and now that i've started becoming overly distracted by women at inappropriate times (I have stopped speaking in the middle of a sentence just to look at girls when talking to my mom, clergy members, and girls i hang out with) it's pretty much definitively time to at least blow off some steam. The problem is that my flirting has become patheticly bad (I was never great to begin with) and celibacy has left me in the habit of treating women equally with how i treat guys. Neither of these things are really condusive to hooking up with any woman. Anybody have any thoughts on ways to re-adjust to not being celibate so I can stop making a jackass of myself? Please don't recommend alcohol either, the booze is what led me to celibacy in the first place.
I don't really know, I was celibacy for two years and just ended up in a relationship. Don't really have any advice. Just flirt a little tell them they look pretty. Tiffany