we had sex for the first time tuesday (both virgins). (used a condom) it lasted id guess not much more than a mineute, and she was cramped up then next day we did lost of oral then on thursday we did it again (i didnt even really want to i did it for her) she goes to the doctor for a check up then shes told she has a uti (urnary track infection) then she is bleeding when she pees she concstanly has to pee but can only 1 in 7 times. shes in alot of pain. How abnormal is this? please help ...i called the hospital they wount even say a word of advice the woman said she cant over the phone ..........help us