So i have been divorced for 5 years and have been dating a nice woman for about a month. The problem is that when she came over recently, she saw that my two girls swim in the pool naked. She now thinks I'm some kind of creep just for letting the kids swim without swimsuits, I mean they've done it since they were in the kiddie pool. She's someone that i like a lot, but I don't know if i still want to see her for not approving of nudity, any thoughts?
Well i think that if she thinks you're a creep for letting your children swim without a swimsuit, you should stop dating her.
yeah if shes not okay with something that is a part of you life, (which in your case is nudity but could be anything) i'd just let her off nicely.
It sounds like trouble to me. We've had other threads here about someone's gf or S.O. not approving of barefooting or any other level of nudity. It's possible it can be worked out, but you may never convert her. That might be OK, but it would be nice if she was OK about you and the two daughters. That's up to her. If it's a continual sore spot, this relationship may be over.
If youve tried explaining that theres absolutely nothing "creepy" about 2 kids not having any clothes on and she still doesnt get it then it doesnt sound like you two are on a level. I mean its not certain but you can hardly change your whole way of life because she has some hangups tbh