help

just cant stop thinking ov gay men, i seem to like the thoughts, but i dont fucking want them, i want my life back, i seriously need help, everyday ov my life i am like this

 

Man, each and every one of your posts have been like this. At first, I tried to help, now you're just getting ridiculous. Really, there's nothing more we can do. It'll be much better if you go to a psychiatrist/psychologist, someone who you can see on a regular basis and share your emotions with. Someone with professional experience who has most likely seen some of these issues before.

 

I'm not trying to be mean, but really, you need to find a resource besides us, because we've been trying for a while now to help you and it hasn't seemed to help at all.

 

This is getting, repetative.

What's wrong is that you think it's wrong. That's why you keep freaking out. You can't help being Gay, just be it. Simple.

 

- Eroll Parat is right i thinck you just need to take time to thinck about things in a clam mannor and if you deciced that you are gay then thats ok. - Yes you have had relshionships with women but that dosent nesserly mean that you will alawayes be straght.

Also i think you may need to get profeshishnal help on the matter - it will help more then we can hear.

 

so what u saying is every man that is staright on this world that has slept with women, doesnt mean they are staright, i just cannot stop thinking ov gay sex, i went on a ocd site they said i had symptons, then i came on here and people say i could be gay/bi, what do i bileve, its like i need everyone to answer it for me. i mean enroll rat has already said i am gay simple as, am i in denial this is why i am so confused, i need help

 

i dont underastand when u say id u decide to be gay, i hear so many times that it isnt a decision, u are born like that, so when i hear that sort ov stuff it just makes me worse into finding out who i am, can anyone give me pointers into how i should be realising if i like men, or how u all fou8nd out if u liked men

 

You are gay when you're born, but you actually, manually, have to accept it. Your brain has to decide that it's gay, and only you can do that. Your brain recognises all these impulses you have from men, but since you haven't told it to think it's alright it's making you freak out do you get what I'm saying?

 

If you like men, embrace your feelings. Don't push them away. I know it feels terrible now but once you accept that you are gay and that you like men you will fel so much better.

Regardless of what anyone else says, I believe that you are born homosexual; your fate is already planned out for you the moment you are conceived.

 

so what about all the women i have being with has it all being a lie

 

No, not a "lie" - more like you have been ignorant of your sexuality.

 

so enroll parat u think i am gay then, so did the women not mean anything was i doing to hide things, it didnt eel like it at the time, have u ever slept with a women enroll parat

 

uk poker - forget the past - I know it can be diffcult but i thinck what is haponing is that you are discovering your sexulitie and that you could be gay.

Yes you have had relshionships with women but that dosent nesserly make you staght - its just not as clean cut as this.
E.g i have had relshionships with women sexual and non but i moved on and came out and have a loving and caring gay relshionship with my boyfrend.
I mean just beceuse you had relshionships with girls and now you are discovering that you may be gay it does not stop you being gay.

Just open up and except you sexulitie.

Therefor the question is - why exactly are yopu afried to do this.

 

you could just except you like men and women. its not hard. i mean, did you enjoy sex with women? and if you're having thoughts about men too and like it, then just do it. watever gets you off, is what i say about the matter.

 

electric boy did u when u went women and had relatuionships what made u discover it wasnt for you, this is what confuses me because i liked having sex with women. but being discovering men, i mean i saw this guy last nite and just cannot stop thinking about all about fucking him, and him fucking me, but it is constant, has anyone had sex with girls or beign with girls for a long time and discovered they are gay ur feedback would be great and if you could just tell me what emotions u were going through that would be great

 

I have never had sex with a woman. I concluded I was gay at 14 ;P

 

how do u know u arent bisexual until u lseep with a women, because basically in the same sense u are saying i aint totally staright until i go with a man, so why not turn it around on urself and start thinking to urself well i havet slept with a women so how do i know i am totally gay

 

Erm, let me see... maybe it's because I could not stand to have sex with a woman? Maybe I find the thought, even the idea totally repulsive. Maybe I'm gay because I cannot for the life of me comprehend straight relationships? Just maybe.....

 

well i dont find the idea repulsive and have sex with women before, and u have claimed i am gay, so wheres the logic and sense in that eroll parat,

 

I have claimed you're gay because you're asking us to basically.

If you still like girls, but like boys aswell, you're bi.