I just found this out 20 min ago. My dad is an alcohol. He goes out probably four nights a week without telling anybody where he is. He drives home drunk every time...not a little drunk, completely wasted. I am not sure whether my mom knows or not. I found really solid evidence...I'm 95% sure he cheats on her. The evidence I found would be waaay to awkward to discuss with my dad.
If you can't talk to your Dad about it then I would not bring it up to your Mom. If she were more intrested then she would already know if she does not already. It's your parents business. I have no idea what kind of relationship you have with your parents but that is how I would think about it. I would not be happy about it either. It sounds to me like you have other issues to deal with regarding your father and I am sure that one would take care of the other.
so what is this "really solid" evidence? just curious but still, its kind of not your place to tell anyone, but if you can get over the awkwardness id discuss it with your dad before taking any action
I don't really want to say what I found that led me to believe all of this. I'm just going to keep my mouth shut for now.
ouch.... :-( sorry man... i don't know if i would say anything... but i don't know your family either
she probably wouldn't believe you even if you did tell her with whatever evidence you have :S people don't like the truth
hmm... that sucks... what you could do.. is talk to him about and try to get him to tell ur mom.. the most honest thing i guess? but other than that i wouldnt get into it that much
i don't have a very good relationship with my father anymore, and me and my mom are tight as shit.. so yeah.. i'd tell my mom
A lie of omission is still a lie, dude the best thing you can do is either talk to your dad, and if you can't do that let your mom know, if you don't then they will both be living a lie
