I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and I have no doubts that he is the one. I was on birth control pills up until recently. I decided that because it completely took away my sex drive. I didn't want it at all. Now that I'm off of it I want sex all the time. Another thing I've noticed is that I just can't stop thinking about having sex with hot strangers. If I see a guy when I'm out and about and I just can't help but fantasize about him dicretely coming up behind me while I shopping and kissing my neck and then we run off to have hot, passionate sex. Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend and I would never cheat on him. I guess I'm just curious about other women that are the same way and what they do to satisfy their cravings.
I have been broke up with my ex for 6 months now. We were each others first. So I don't know what it is like to be with someone else. I know what you mean and are talking about. Here recently I have been fantasizing about other men and stuff they do to me. It drives me crazy.
Fantasizing is completely natural and normal. Men do it all the time, all day long, and women think about it too. The only way it would become a problem is if you were to allow your fantasies to become realities by cheating, which is never good, and from what it sounds like you are really in love. One way to explore your cravings and sexual fantasies is through self-pleasure. That way, you can actually use those hot sexy men in your imagination and have a totally orgasmic experience. It is a win-win situaiton because it is completely safe sex, you're not cheating, and you get to put your fantasies to use. There are a variety of ways to masturbate... using water, the shower, a sex toy... etc. This may be a helpful article: http://www.goarticles.com/cgi-bin/showa.cgi?C=1074625 Hope that helps!
I am single now, but when I was with my ex (for two years) I commonly fantasized about sex with other men. Like someone else said, men do it all day everyday. Your boyfriend has fantasies about other women, I'm sure.
You say that because you only hear her side. Imagine being in love with a women, completely devoted to her, having children with her. Now imagine taking her out to dinner on a saturday night, just happy to have a day off to spend with her and she heads to the restroom and the above happens. Not hott... Despicable.
Maybe, but as you said yourself "imagine". You can imagine it that way but maybe things weren't as you "imagined". She does say he is now her ex-husband, so who knows what the circumstances were between them at the time they were at the restaurant. Not that I condone the behavior, but I think it is wrong to dream up fairy tale circumstances that you have no way of knowing are true or not, and then coming down on someone for acting against the circumstances that you have dreamed up for them in your own head. If I "imagine" it your way, then yes I agree it is despicable, but who's to say that you imagined it the right way?
I have enough fantasies (including with strangers) that I could write a book about them.....maybe I should....
Regardless of the exact details, it is completely inappropriate under ANY circumstances for a grown, married woman to go to the bathroom at a mexican resturaunt, screw a man in the bathroom, and them come back to dinner with her husband.. Period.
I must say I think the appropriateness of her action depends on the attitude and understanding of the husband! SHARING CREATES ABUNDANCE!
Yeah well this is one of those things that is hot in theory, but in reality if I were the Mexican food guy I'd feel guilty afterwards (assuming I knew she was married ecet.). I probably wouldn't do it if I knew the circumstances surrounding the quickie. But just like when you watch a porno when I read stories on this forum that are of a sexual nature I tend to detach the stories from actual people with families ecet. and get sucked into raunchiness.
its not like having fantasies about myself with strangers but like i think about what that person looks like when they're having sex, and the way they move
