the sex before mariage.

well as a Christian in sex "the two shall become one flesh".It is a spiritual knitting of two seprate spirits coming together mysteriously and becoming one.

Also "what God puts together, man should not seprate'.He created it, so why can't he also say how it works the best! Human instruction manual (bible)

SO, I personally don't see how if sex was created for this, how can sex be exchanged between two spirits and than taken away with out hurting a persons( and heart) spirit some where and/or hurting Gods heart.

Because, if the folks involved have than taken apart what he meant as something beautiful to be sown together permanent.....there must be some thing hurtful in it.

I would imagine those who have lived a life where they do this, they probably all have regrets and hurts in their hearts that run deep because of the bonding.
I know I have experienced it.

We are not amoebas.But created as a much higher and more complicated spiritual beings...

 

Also what I know of what sin is, it is separation from God.He is holy, unscathed,majestic, and really cant be combined with sinfulness.
If what you are doing is separating yourself from God, it sin.

It can be forgiven because God is all about compassion and grace. But why take advantage of His grace so you can self satisfy yourself for a while.

It will come back to hurt you.God tells us of these things because he LOVES us and knows what will hurt us, because he invented us! ..God IS love!

 

Do YOU think its a sin? Ask yourself if making love before signing a piece of paper is wrong. If the answers yes then dont, if no then do. Answer to no-one but your inner self, because youre your own best friend, and thats where God lies

Good luck

 

Sin does not exist, just the conscience black and white, good and bad.
Sex is a complement and a way of freedom for energy. Even a way to keep the evolution. Sex is a fun, God is gladnes..god is funny.

 

sex is not inherently a sin. sex is no sin between a man and his wife.
if you believe in the 10 commandments- then according to them.. commiting adultry is a sin.
look up the word adultry.
personally, i think waiting til your in a commited marriage is the best thing possible.
its not because god is a tyrant..its because he wants to ensure we dont get hurt.