I don't know how to get over being cheated on

Bonsai - I loved, loved, loved your post! At times, I have allowed myself to be consumed with the mind movies, terrible thoughts, etc. I'm so afraid it will start to define me in some ways if I don't change my ways.

Penny - from what I have heard, we need to take care of ourselves (get a new haircut, outfit, do something you really enjoy). We have a choice about where we focus our energy... and, we get out of life exactly what we put into it. You deserve to be happy and loved! I'm working on the same things - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

Thanks so much for your answers everyone.. it's very comforting.

 

I hope so
you must remember though

its like issac brock from modest mouse put it

"took alot of work to be the ass I am... Now Im really damn sure that anyone can equally easily fuck ya over"

Just remember as the days go on the hurt fades
and you will find someone to make you feel so good
make your heart sing with light lol

 

In the end, you gotta realise that you are more than the sum of your relationships with others. It probably felt alot like a piece of you was torn away when your guy cheated on you. But if you do some real soul searching you'll find soon enough that your true self hasn't been effected at all.

Try some meditation, feel your inner body. That feeling is you, and it's never gona' go away. Ever.

peace and love
Changes

 

Thanks to all of you. Some of it was a BIG help for me. Thanks For all the advice. I am going to start living my life.

 

this was such a beautiful post. I just had to comment. I still think they are dumbtards but you said the same thing sooooooooooooo beautifully.