To me my sexuality is my very essence my personal core energy. it is not something i use for random encounter bump and grind type things nor do I want to release it. To me this personal energy is very special; something that I use to work me,to say what i want to say and, to do what i want for me. i can reach out to others using this energy if i want but it doesn't have to be with my body and it doesn't have to be implying a sex encounter. my sexuality makes me smile it feels good inside of me without anybody else touching it or having to "release" it. when i feel a build up of my sexual energy if i get too ahh ahh horny, to me that means i have a block in my energy field and my energy is not flowing if it gets stuck in just one part of my body or causes me to obsess in my thought. I believe people would live in far better health if they truly understood the nature of their sexual energy. Do not waste your seed for it is your life force. It is no wonder why evil has been so intertwined in sexuality evil loves to steal this energy this perfect essence of who each of us are. It makes us think it is something we need to get "rid" of instead of keep. Younger folks may have a hormonal factor working in favor of masturbation in their bodies but, i tell ya learning to contain that energy and use it for your personal growth and health you really can learn to do anything with this energy. This energy is your creative force instead of always masturbating because your hormonal reflex is stuck. Use it to do something else. Understand that your body is making hormones let these hormones feed your other body parts because it is good for your health. I said it is good for your health. Your body does things with this energy that help your skin stay young looking and give your muscles energy to burn when you abstain. i am sure all great athletes know this. some important subtle often not even understood functions of the body can not be nourished without these hormonal messages circulating though out the body. And....We do need to try an slow down the population growth for the sake of the economy. I know many people would be against this idea. I am not proposing abortion cause i don't think it is good but i think that people need to get control of their own bodies and get more work done on this earth and stop using their sexual energy to waste their own life. people are obsessed with sex. the ancient religions made laws about sexuality to protect life. i believe all the power struggles of the whole world among people are about unbalanced use of this energy. I guess it will take us another 2 thousand years to get it...
I think the OP is saying that sexual energy or tension without release from masturbation leads you to success and good health. When you release your sexual energy, you release your drive to compete and succeed. Makes sense. Some of us are too weak and the temptation too strong though lol. I will try it this week and see if it makes a difference in my busy week, masturbating every day vs. not.
I am saying that the energy or tension you feel can be used for other things. The cells that are being released can be used by your body instead of being expelled to just die. Learning how to draw this energy back to yourself instead of releasing it is good for your health. Having sex does not have to end in released orgasm either. Have you ever heard of sexual kung fu?
I am saying masturbation is wasting your energy and your life force. here are a few links that may help you get a better idea about what I am saying: http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Tatiana_O_Per http://www.innerself.com/Sex_Talk/chia_71804.htm
he's basically talking some buddhist philosophy stuff. it's wrapped up in all the typical mystical-magical talk which translated is like: - don't orgasm so that you stay horny / happy all the time by avoiding the downtime we experience post-orgasm (endocrine system really can't use up sex hormones this way) - then he says something about how if he gets really horny to where he wants to do something about it, it's actually some kind of bad magic stuff that is trying to take advantage of him or something it all makes perfect sense but when you sensationalize it / mystify it it becomes untenable and pretty much stupid to the very people you are trying to get across to... the same thing usually happens when people are introduced to meditation
I agree for the most part with the OP. I am trying to do this, but I have a question. How does one "use" or "absorb" this sexual energy that is so used to being released all the time and always wants to be.
To begin you must first control your thoughts about it. Telling yourself that you have to do anything other than breathe, eat and, go to the bathroom is insane to begin with. This energy does not want to be released it wants to be used. Try doing something else: breathe deeply pay attention to your breathing, relax get in touch with yourself what can you do with this energy that you think wants to be released?
Ah yes, breathing seems good. I read a book by Thich Nhat Hanh called "The miracle of Mindfulness" that is all about being "mindful" with focusing on breath. Hah, guess it's about about relax, breath, and focus. "Old habits die hard."
I am really hoping ya'll are thinking about how you give your precious life force out for nothing when you sit around spilling your seed all over the place. It debilitates your brain truly. It feels good I know. I am not saying these things to instill guilt. I am hoping that you can grasp a deeper understanding about how we are made. So you can live longer AND IN GREATER HEALTH. LOVE YA'LL ((()))&***
Masturbating wastes energy and life-force? Oh come, on, no nonsense please. Psychology teaches that masturbation relieves emotional tension, clears the mind of trivial matters, lowers blood pressure, increases sensitivity on the body and has other well-documented health benefits, one of which is cardiovascular health, as it speeds the heart sharply, then drops down (same as orgasm during sex). If we didn't do it, imagine what sort of near-zombies we would be!?
You're right, YoMama. I've edited post to exclude reference to youtube, though I did come across a youtube links in another thread that has got this post and that tangled in memory!
