I heard at a college speech one in six women ger raped.... how common are ghb rapes? My darling likes to party but she cant really make good decisions about wether or not go to a party ( on campus sports house vs shady barn in iowa with god know who there) and it would damn near kill me if any thing happend to her she has like one close friend at her school and goes to parties in a group with basicly random girls and a few guys(i like that procect the girls in case shit happens) but im so worried i know it does happen tho. what advice do oyu gals have to keep her safe?
It depends on the campus, we have one here in Toronto where it's very likely, but they offer security when you walk anywhere. I was followed myself to my car once, but this black guy, he was so close to be I could feel his breath on my neck. I had my book bag though, which I swung backwards. Right into his nuts. He left me alone.
going to a party without people you trust has inherent risks for anyone, male or female. teach your daughter about the buddy system. whenever i'd go out with my friends, i was basically the babysitter. sorta like a cock blocker, but i'd let them get some if they wanted to, so i dont' like that title. bascally, what i did was keep an eye on my friends and whenever they started to look trapped or uncomfortable, i'd get them outta there. everyone still had fun, and they knew we all had each other's backs. but the risks are hard to believe until it happens to you or someone close to you. gather up a little info for her and call it good. it's all you can do.
Sounds like you're more of a cock filter then a cock blocker, i wonder if that will catch on (the term 'cock filter' that is)?
I assume your "darling" is your girlfriend. (if not, oops) The best advice I can give is that she NEVER leaves her drink unattended. She shouldn't set it down to go potty, or to dance. Yeah, pain in the ass, but it also means no one slipped anything in it. I would also suggest that she always get her own drinks, or watches as they are being made. Finally, always go with a friend that will step in if needed (and switch off alternate nights so all the friends have a chance to party). All that matters is that your darling and her friends all make it home safe. Unfortunately some people do despicable things, and all any of us can do is try to prevent it from happening to us, or our loved ones. Date rape is real, women being slipped ghb is real, and they should not be overlooked or minimized. You don't need to be paranoid, but a little common sense is definitely in order.
at any rate, we women are a lot tougher and cynical than we were back in the OP's day. it's probably one of the reasons why men are having such troubles with us. it's a sad fact that everyone has to pay for the crimes of the few.
york? ...well first off, you cant really keep anyone else safe, just give good advice. She should get some good sense.The only way to protect yourself is a good head on your shoulders..
Tip: GHB usually has quite a salty taste (well, sodium-GHB does, potassium-GHB is a lot less common but lacks so much of a taste). So go for sweet drinks where you could easily tell if it started tasting salty.
