What happens after you have sex?

yea its difficult to leave tho like u say.......and it also depends on how strong r ur feelings for this guy? if its love, ur in trouble. coz its too hard to leave, if it isnt, i would probably agree, if hes making u not enjoy sex, sumthing is very wrong.

 

While I do like him quite a bit... I definitely wouldn't go so far as to call it love... I'm still half in-love with my ex (hah the great romance of my life thus far...)

I know it's going nowhere, and that there are plenty better out there, I just can't bring myself to break up with him for some reason...

Thanks for the support though, ladies and gents.

 

Well, I can only add my support! Sex is wonderful and is incredible "positive re-enforcement"... so don't re-enforce behaviors you don't like in people you hang out with! There's lots of great brothers out there not getting any, don't support the jerks, be empowered!

 

Fruit Bat ...just dump him! don't think twice. You will find another that really appreciates!

 

It just... it's difficult because I know besides the sex, he's... a lot more invested in the relationship than me.

Blehhhh.

 

spoon and fall asleep

 

if my partner had a smoke after sex it would be such a turn off

 

I smoke, so I really don't mind... Used to just have a cigarette together in bed with my last boyfriend... I liked it.. But now, with my boyfriend who gets up and leaves the room to smoke by himself...

It IS a huge turnoff...

 

That guy you're with sounds very introverted or under a lot of stress. I'm kind of the same way sometimes, though I would never leave a girlfriend abandoned after sex.

I'm too in love with cuddling.