is it possible to have a physical relationship with someone that turns into more? if the connection is there? if you just vibe with that person? how do you go from sex to moooooooooore? without seeming pushy. love y'all.
If you spend a lot of time with a person even if its having sex or not there will come a time well you will start liking that person and feeling things for them you have to go slow and try to show that person that you want more than sex show them that you care, listen and that you will be there in case he needs you
Hmmm let's elucidate some 'facts' first: Fact (1): We are humans. Fact (2): We have feelings. Fact (3): People differ, and definitely are not the same. Conclusion: As we are human and have various feelings, some of us "but not all" may develop emotional feelings on a physical contact. Intimacy of such feelings vary between people according to the difference of intense of emotions in each of them. Subsequently we would presume that some people can develop deep love, and I am sure it happens, while others may develop some emotional interest, and I am sure it happens also, while others may feel the slightest interest for a fraction of second then it fades away in a heart beat, no pun intended, sure of this as well. However, there is also the logical remainder of our conclusion, that there are people who can do it without feeling any type of emotions ever, directing their minds to the physical part only and able to block the emotional one completely and not see it at all to begin with, and I am sure these people exist too. Oh and to answer your question, if your sane mind and your clear heart tell you that the other partner is really willing to take it to a higher level, many things you do or say, even if were not that deliberate, may help taking it there, while if they had no will, you may be able to realize that. Hints also play a big role in revealing this.
i've been with my boyfriend for six months now but the first time we had sex was five years ago. we ran into eachother again and hung out as friends everyday for a week or two and ended up having sex again. from there we had sex regularly and hung out everyday until finally we realized that we were kidding ourselves if we didn't admit how much we dug eachother and might as well be together "officially". but i think my story is rare. sadly, i think it's true that a lot of guys will lose interest in a female as a potential long-term partner if she has sex with him before she falls in love instead of vice versa. bleeehh...
I have never had a good relationship where the sex came first. We were always friends first, and the sex came later. I don't think this is a bad thing, necessarily. Sometimes you just want to fuck someone without getting involved with them. But sex turning into love? Never happened for me.
